I'm doing a production of Ragtime. The guy I like (well I'm not so sure I like him anymore) isn't in it but this guy in his grade is. This guy, got jealous when I let it slip (seriously, I had no intention of letting anyone know!). Called him a dud and then said to me "who is better looking?" and "there are other guys".
Mr. Flirt flirted with me and then started to ignore me (when I'm talking to him and stuff). NOw he flirts with whoever I'm next to (girl of course). He's in my head playing these games I realize. But what do I do about it. He knows he's getting to me (I don't let it show - but he can tell) and he know I'm figuring him out.
I just want to go out with a bang. And I don't know how to let him know - he can't treat people like that.
Other girls gush all other him. I don't and don't plan on it.
Hlep me please. I am 17 he is 18 and it is a crazy time.
2006-07-15 05:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do what you're doing . . . I mean you could do him then dump him, but you've let him rent space in your head . . . only you can evict him. Treat him politely and talk to him when you need to, but nothing else. Trust me, you do not need this guy (you may want him, but we don't always want what's best for ourselves, right . . . kinda like "I'll take the french fries" when I know I should have a salad). Pretty soon, one of 2 things will happen . . . he'll come around and you can move forward or he won't you'll be able to move on without him. He definitely shouldn't be treating people the way he is, but only he can change himself. If you try, you'll be the one tormented and is it better to be right or to be at peace?
2006-07-15 06:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by trb1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, Mr. Flirt is the guy you like(d)? Well, he's an immature spoiled, self centered idiot. You shouldn't have insulted guy #2 unless you weren't and Mr. Flirt was the "dud", in that case, he's obviously so insecure that he can't handle critisism, and in that case, he's really not worth your time. It's not up to you to change him, he has to want to change, and if you're still giving him attention in any way, you're giving him the power. Good luck girlie.
2006-07-15 13:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alysianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get clear: what are your intentions?
Then make choices that fit within what you value and what works to make you happy. You can choose to be annoyed or choose to ignore it. Sounds like you made some choices you didn't like - let it go and move on.
Keep in mind: based on your results you have exactly what you intended - don't like those results - well - change your intentions.
2006-07-15 12:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Steve D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k wait so is mr. flirt the one u wanna go out with or the one u wanna break up with???
i'm really sry i cant help u...i just got wayy to confused by that story!!
2006-07-15 12:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by A Pirate's Life For ME ;) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i depends on situation. you decide whom would you prefer to stay with the one who flirts with others in front of you to get you or the one you like earlier. if i were in your place i would stayed with the guy i like and not with one who flirts as there is no grantee that he would not leave you for someone else.
2006-07-15 13:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by rahul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget about him because hes a dick and I m sure you got some better prospects.
2006-07-15 12:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by ryan o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u come o me i will love u and i will give that fun which he gave u in night in bed if u like it send mail tome
2006-07-15 13:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in such situation..i wuld completely ignore him..as if he is non-existent.
2006-07-15 12:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by RAINGIRL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't dig ignorance.
2006-07-15 12:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by bookgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bang him
2006-07-15 12:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋