I read the question about sperm coming out. I thought we were doing something wrong. How can we get pregnant if the damn sperm just comes back out, is what I asked myself. I feel better now.
2006-07-15 05:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by me4areason 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
First of all, the "damn sperm" probably *aren't* coming out. Sperm are microscopic--in fact, they're the *smallest* cell in the human body, and almost *all* cells are microscopic. Unless you have a microscope by the side of the bed, you have *no way* to know if sperm are coming out!!
On the other hand, you probably *do* see semen leaking out. The job of the semen is to keep the sperm alive for about 15 seconds--until it gets into the female body. At that point, it is *useless*; it doesn't *matter* if it leaks out!!
Using the "pillow under the hips" thing may help (although there is *no* evidence that it does!!), but unless you have been trying to get pregnant for several months, there is no reason to even bother.
So...don't worry about it. It's normal, and it *doesn't* impact on fertility in any way.
2006-07-16 01:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-07-16 19:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It worries me to see all these woman asking all of these basic questions about their bodies and their cycles….and then getting all these different answers – and usually most of these answers are WRONG!
This is my standard answer......... go get a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive. My Doctor recommended it to me and after 1 year of trying I got the book. It worked the very next month. It turns out that my timing was wrong due to mis-information. I hope it helps you, too! It's not only about getting pregnant. It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths!
2006-07-15 13:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sperm swim upward , trust me a few of them made it to the "finish line". Of course it seems like all of it comes out, some of it has to. Lay on your back for 15-20 minutes so that it doesn't all flow back out.
2006-07-15 12:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do understand that not every single sperm comes out, don't you? All you need is one out of a billion. I'm sure there are a few little swimmers left in you.
2006-07-15 12:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by jeffypuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, then you'll get pregnant. Don't worry, I'm sure it'll happen sooner or later. Practice makes perfect. Keep trying, best of luck to you. I hope you have a happy and healthy baby, and no problems with your pregnancy.
2006-07-15 12:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please believe me when I say "It only takes one little sperm.."
I certainly hope you are married, have a regular income and
are prepared to be a parent "For the rest of your life!!"
If you don't understand more about conception I suspect you
are quite young. Wait until you are in a married committed
relationship. Once you are a parent you are a parent forever.
2006-07-15 22:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ask your husband to penetrate deeper so when sperm is released it will go to the side of the cervix where it has to be to be able to conceive. just penetrate deeper.
2006-07-16 23:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this...try www.justmommies.com..
It only takes one little guy to shoot up there...you should get an ovulation calculator to determin when is the best time for you guys to have sex....besides what goes up must come down!!
2006-07-15 12:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you finish having sex lay with your back on your bed with you legs resting upwards on the bed head or wall, some people say that works
2006-07-15 12:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by lil_meex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋