2006-07-15 04:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't have the first clue as to what is "obvious" to you. There are many factors that keep someone from "fitting in" socially. Maybe the group of people isn't right for the person. Maybe the person's personality and interests are too different from those of the group for him/her to fit in. Most people, until they mature, blame their not "fitting in" on themselves when in reality the problem lies somewhere between the group and the person. The best reaction to not "fitting in" is to do what one really wants or which interests him or her. He/she needs to forget about the group and find out what really will make him/her happy. When that is found and worked for, the social group for that person will slowly form.
Pretty good question!
2006-07-15 04:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many answers to this.....
_some people are too outspoken or stuck on THEMSELVES. They ALWAYS want to take the floor. They NEVER want to let anybody else talk......THEY always want to be the center of attention. Everything that comes up they've either been there, done that or know ALL about it...so they say!
Then you have the extremely shy type who just DON'T KNOW what to say to people because they THINK they 're being judged.
These are people are very sensative and their feelings are hurt very easily.
Then there are people who can dish out jokes on others but they can't TAKE a joke on THEMSELVES. When they get "cornered" they want to fight or end the conversation.
Then you have those people who talk TOO MUCH....about somebody elses business.
2006-07-15 04:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by J12258 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Anonymous!A person doesn't fit in socially only if he/she is not interested in being part of the social circle.If you r really interested u'll avoid dressing like the odd one out,standing in a corner and sulking and of course,talk to absolutely no one.
So all u gotta do is relax and socialise....
Take Care.
2006-07-15 04:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, the way someone looks has a lot to do with it. If you are a big boned female, don't have soft features, and are a unique thinker, people might be in awe of you, but they won't necessarily include you in their company. Trust me, I know
2015-02-10 05:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their attitude, I have a hard time putting up with people who are arrogant or otherwise selfish and annoying
2006-07-15 04:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by ixoyechirho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not be confident and outgoing...holding their head down, not looking up, no eye contact, and fidgeting..
2006-07-15 04:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by HotBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋