is it wrong to have fantasy of being with girls and really wanting to act on it even though you're marrying in two months and guy doesnt want to do that he believes that you are committed to only him and have no fantasy other than with him.
2006-07-15 04:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't marry him! If he is not enough for you - find someone else.
2006-07-15 04:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on which you want the most, men or women. if you love this man enough that you are able to put your fantasy aside, then do it. maybe he will like the idea a few years from now....you never know. if you like women to much, and can't let go of the fantasy, then try to figure out how deep your desire is. if you want only one night stand, then what your fiance doesn't know won't hurt him. if you want a relationship, then break up with him, if you love someone else more.
good luck either way, i hope you'll be happy.
2006-07-15 16:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by The Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the guy you are going to marry thinks it's wrong to have fantasy's about being with another woman then you don't need to be with him, it's every mans dream to have 2 woman.
2006-07-15 04:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by tigerfoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong. as long as you allow the fantasy to live in your mind, eventually, your mind WILL give way to the fantasy and you will end up acting on it. I've seen it too many times.
EITHER ELIMINATE YOUR FANTASY LIFE, OR DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN. YOU WILL ONLY BE HURTING HIM.
2006-07-15 04:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are really interested in being with a woman..to me that sounds like a symptom of something else/deeper rather than a fantasy...maybe you should do some soul searching/get counseling to find out the deeper issue prior to getting married. if you continue with your fantasies eventually you will act upon them. this will damage your relationship.
2006-07-15 04:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong to have fantasies. I have them all the time.
2006-07-15 04:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are certainly all right.They keep us going. Your husband to be may want you completely physically but the mind is so volatile that it cannot be controlled by social norms.
2006-07-15 04:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by sambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to act out your fantasys and your BF doesn't want you to i dont believe your ready to get married you are setting yourself up for failer and many regrets
2006-07-15 04:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong to have fantasies but it is not always okay to act on them
2006-07-15 04:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by be weird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I fantasize about being Queen Latifah every day!
2006-07-15 04:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by Brian P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are who you are. sometimes its just the urge to try something new that sparks little flames like this one. it may pass. but if you really love your husband, then you will not cheat on him. seek counceling and dont be embarassed, your not the only one that feels urges like this.
2006-07-15 04:33:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋