a co-workers question
2006-07-15 04:03:06 · 32 answers · asked by sugarfireandice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Duh, only cheaters say they can't help but cheat. Should we accept stealing because thiefs can't help but steal? What if he was a murderer? Sorry honey, can't help myself. I just had to kill 'em. Guys can't help but to kill people, look at the news. I guess the answer is: Yes, if your friend is dumb enough to believe it and will be happy living with an unfaithful man 'cuz he can't help himself. Yes, it's okay.
2006-07-15 04:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't just accept a cheating husband or boyfriend, sometimes there are things in the relationship that may cause someone to stray away, cheating isn't always the person whose cheating fault it can be both of you. If you really care about each other communication is the key, if you forgive and want to make the relationship work then that's a different story. Sometimes there are people in this world that just go after couples that are happy to see how far they can get.
2006-07-15 06:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people get together wanting a monogamous relationship, i.e. one on one, no cheating by either person.
So unless the people in the relationship have agreed that it can be an open relationship, which does work for a very few people, then no, its not acceptable to have a partner who's cheating on you, and thinks its ok because he's a guy.
Any person can choose to cheat or not to cheat, guys included. So if the guy is choosing to cheat in what is supposed to be a monogamous relationship, then he shouldn't expect the woman to find it acceptable.
2006-07-15 04:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat on women who they know will allow it and accept! yes i do believe all will cheat but I have 2brothers 12uncles and 40 male cousins and we are a close family every last one of these men has told me A MAN KNOWS who will take it and who wont and futher more out of all those men majority of them are cheaters the ones who have stopped or never have are the ones who said they found the one who is "worth" it and that they will love that women 4ever the. my dad says to never take a man back if he cheats it shows weakness he says if you leave and maybe come back in a year or so that man will know you mean business ,but the main thing I have been told is it is about a womens personality most of them said they have cheated because of their wives or girlfriends personality whatever that means because 1 cheated cuz his gf was 2 nice and he said he needed to be with someone who had a little toughness to her and the other said his was a b***h and he wanted someone nicer so as I grew up I decided to take the middle ground and it has worked i am 30 and no you should NEVER ACCEPT a man who cheats!
2006-07-15 04:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds more like a self esteem question to me. What is your co-worker willing to accept in a person. Homeslice would be kicked to the curb with an answer to her question like " I can't help it, I'm a guy and we all do it"...
First of all if she is willing to accept that answer then she is going to take manipulation and abuse from all men and that is the kind of man she will attract. Please tell her to research "battered wife syndrome". She has to break the cycle of allowing herself to accept that kind of behavior from any man.
The bottom line is, NO, all men are not cheaters and most men won't. She neds to find herself a good man that cares about her and doesnt run at the first short skirt that comes along.
If she accepts that kind of behavior she is in for a lifetime of heartache..
2006-07-15 04:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by psstoffagain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she's married and a Christian woman then she should talk to someone at her church. They are generally very supportive. If he is truly sorry about the whole incident and it was a one time thing, then it might be better to try to reconcile the marriage. If she's not married then it's up to her what she wants to do, but no, she definitely should not accept it just because of the lame excuse "I'm a guy." Not all guys cheat.
2006-07-15 04:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO. Once a cheat alway's a cheat. Not all men cheat. She needs to get out of the relationship. Before he get way out of hand.
2006-07-15 04:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweat mamma bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows he is cheating and has not ended the relationship then she is accepting his behaviour. This puts her at risk of STD's. She should consider whether she ever wants a family with this man, and if he is worth the heartache. If she insists that she loves him then she should just stop whining about him and being a martyr.
2006-07-15 04:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by andrea g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your co-worker, that if one can cheat, so can the other one. She should bring that up to her significant other and see how he takes it.
2006-07-15 04:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not....There is plenty of men out there who are ready to settle down and commit to one women. The men who are out there cheating have no excuse saying guys can't help but cheat when i think it is women who get sexual advances more than men. And if u can stay faithful so SHOULD HE....
2006-07-15 04:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by chickannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys cheat so it wouldn't be right to accept a cheating guy. women need someone to respect them and make them feel strong inside. if they let their significant other cheat, they are acting weak because they won't break up with them because they think all guys cheat.
2006-07-15 04:08:06 · answer #11 · answered by nikoxki16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋