i m fat and dont have a boyfriend
2006-07-15 04:02:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Hardware ➔ Laptops & Notebooks
First of all, you are not fat, you should not let this nonsense get to you. Remember we have a short life to live in this beautiful world, therefore, don't waste your time on what your friends are doing, worry about life. Maybe you are not suppose to meet your love one until God thinks you are ready, so have fun, meet guys and party on, but stay in school. You'll see, you will meet this guy and he will make your life a never ending fantasy. He could be around the corner, you never know.
2006-07-15 04:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Ivan 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you gotta start being more confident about yourself. Then, learn what it takes to lose weight naturally...and work hard and do it. Losing weight will feel awesome, and you'll be even more noticed than the other girls because people will remember that you used to be fat.
I know a girl who was on a local high school cheerleading squad...but she was kinda fat...not only did she not have a boyfriend, but guys would make fun of her from the stands during games.
But she decided last year that she was going to make something of herself...she decided to lose weight however she could. She exercised a lot, started eating really healthy & burning more calories than she took in (your body HAS to lose weight when you do this, by the way...a lot of ppl think losing weight is like this mysterious magical thing).
She DID it, she lost the weight, and she's HOT now. EVERY guy notices her because they remember what she used to look like. And she has absolutely no prob getting a b/f.
Make losing weight a top priority but don't place TOO MUCH importance on it. You are YOU whether you're thick or thin, and that's a good thing.
2006-07-15 04:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by yngmillionaire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ! Don't worry that you don't have a boyfriend. It is not the end of the world. You may be feeling insecure, unhappy and lost becoz of your weight issues. Your friends and others will be judging you in the same manner cos you think of yourself as fat. You have to get of this shelf and start working towards your inner growth. Try to exercise and watch your food intake. Start loving the body that God created and work towards attaining a healthy and slimmer body. I bet with enough determination and perseverance, YOU CAN DO IT. Trust me, once you have worked upon yourself, the rest will follow.
2006-07-15 04:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by God'sChild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing, do not get upset. Be happy for them. When you are sincerely happy for other peoples' happiness, you will reap twice the reward.
Now that you know that you dont have a boyfriend, due to the fact that you are fat, go on and lose your weight, and have a positive attitude. And everything will fall and fit nicely like a jigsaw puzzle. You will do very well. :) Be happy.
2006-07-15 04:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by CuriosCAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be depress...for all you know someone is waiting for...you might not notice it....hmmmnnn
Try to enjoy what you have coz if you always compare yourself to your friends or to other people that will only make the situation worse.
Be thankful of what you have. You might see other people happier than you are but they too have their own issues...
2006-07-15 04:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All my friends were a size 2 and all had surfer & model boyfriends. They loved hanging out with me so I always went out with the "gang". But I always felt like I didn't belong with all those beautiful people.
Then I realized that if they all loved me for who I am, and I am happy with who I am, it's up to me whether or not I feel it's important to lose weight for me. NOT for them. NOT for a boyfriend.
So I did - and so far, I have lost 100 pounds and everyone is happy for me - but best of all, becuase I took the time to finally love myself and believe in myself, God sent me the perfect companion and we were married in January. I am still losing weight - but it's still for me.
Just be happy with yourself - LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT WEIGHT OR BOYFRIENDS. Enjoy your life, be yourself and make the changes in your life for you!
2006-07-15 04:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by The Lizard Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to also and I'm fat but hey I got a dream girl! I didn't think my perfect girl existed but here she is and she doesn't care I'm fat, and I really am fat too, o.O'' anyways so yeah it doesn't matter if your fat and my girlfriend came to me... she said I was cute and I said I liked her and bam here we are. I never expected that. You really got to stop focussing on it and some one will whether it takes years or not like my case, drop on you.
2006-07-15 04:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Golgo-13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 02:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll try to lose weight maybe join a sport and find close that flatter your figure i'm not fat but i have friends who are and certain things make them look bigger or smaller
2006-07-15 04:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Shandi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget what the rest say, if ur unhappy with yourself than no one else will be.Maybe u can finda a guy who likes u for u ,,,or just hang out with ur friends when their boyfriends arent there.
2006-07-15 04:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋