2006-07-15 03:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first 11 he was sober a recovering alcoholic. We have mixed family he has children and i do who live with us, they are all older, my sons are 17 and 16 but now he is drinking again and never home and i guess i am just feeling lonely. Before it was all about us and the kids and now, well I am also on the verge of being and empty nester so i want to grow old with someone. Not always be alone.
2006-07-15 17:01:14 · update #1
Well need a little more to go with here. But if your unhappy and have tried everything else, counseling take a vacation, talking to each other not at each other and if you have done all those things and you still cant be in the relationship then its time for you to go . You just pack and leave. Its not going to be easy but its what you have to do. Now if your being abused in anyway NO NEED for talking NO NEED for concealing JUST GO !! there is always some place you can go. But like I said need a little more to go on.
2006-07-15 05:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by ceece01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Can Leave Any Relation Ship At Any Time, But 13 Year The Reason Has To Be Good....but some people just get tired of one another.....
2006-07-15 12:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard that song 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover?
Pick one!
2006-07-15 11:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pick either a door or a window to go out of and then put one foot in front of the other.
on a serious note, it is hard, very hard, emotions will play out and feelings will be hurt, booze and a new relationship do help, but it takes time to get over it all
2006-07-15 10:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with dignity; You have to be brave take tiny steps and move on( I say this fro exp. 16yrs.) don't date that would only make it worse just socialize if you get into a committed one so soon it'll only cause more trauma for you, can't be more frank here without being personal but keep your head high cry alot and try to move on. good luck
2006-07-15 10:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you leave a 13 year relationship?
2006-07-15 10:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Andreana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you end any relationship; you make up your mind you are doing the right thing and then you go.
2006-07-15 11:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye, and pack your things and start over. If this is a marriage, call a lawyer.
2006-07-15 11:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through the front door.
You know your partner better than anyone here. So talk to them they way you know how to talk to them...and go.
2006-07-15 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jess H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more details plz can't help u sorry
2006-07-15 10:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋