How is it done. Do either of partners do it, or cumpolsarily both have to? and is there a guilt factor attached when only one partner does it. Do the married couple have sex immediately after one partner returns from swap session.
Please explain.Thanks in advance.
2006-07-15 03:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by bharat b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sheesh, folks! The google button is there for a reason; use it to find some 21st century information on the subject at hand before doling out misinformed advice.
My husband and I have participated in this kind of activity, although "wife-swapping" is actually a very outdated and even derogatory term for it. The preferred terms are swinging or 'the lifestyle'. Still others prefer 'responsible non-monogamy'.
Women are not traded like pieces of meat. It is VERY rare for even an experienced couple to go to separate rooms, let alone go on completely separate dates. It is not prostitution. It is not just for the rich and famous people who are spoiled and bored with their lives. It is for ordinary, average people (typically white collar suburbanites) who happen to enjoy seeing their partner enjoying themselves sexually. Occasionally, jealousy can flare up, but invariably it is a sign that the couple is emotionally out of sync. Once they re-synchronize and see eye to eye again, the jealousy dissipates very quickly. If the couple is emotionally and mentally prepared for it, this is a very rewarding hobby. And yes, if the couple is suited to it, they definitely have sex with one another immediately after they've had sex wth others!
2006-07-18 19:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
google "polyamory" and you will find out about wife swapping and more.
It's usually 2 couples exchange partners, and also all 4 could be in the bed together. It's expected that everyone is going to be doing this. Sometimes the pairs will have sex seperately.
In my case, there was a large amount of jealousy on my part, and I eventually divorced my husband over things like this.
I have found that it's very rare to find a couple who are secure and open enough to make an "open" relationship work for the long term.
2006-07-15 03:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife swapping to my understanding is when two couples swap wifes for a designated amount of time which from what im told by others is usually only a night or so.In my opinion this option will only lead to future problems.I truly believe that u should think long and hard on this b4 u actually commit to an act that is obviously a contradiction to the whole reason u got married in the first place.if it were me i wouldn't do it
2006-07-15 03:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Shady525 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but I guess there was a reality tv show back then wherein there's swapping of wives. basically, the two parties agrees to swap their wives, exchange lives for the wives. but there was no physical or emotional attachment for both husbands and the exhange wives. maybe guilt would follow if there is. and i bet they would cuddle since they've been apart for weeks.
2006-07-15 03:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I swapped a wheelbarrow for some guys wife...
2006-07-15 04:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by incharge333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife swapping is a pre-cursor to divorces where two sexually deviant couples have sex with eachother. Sometimes partnered off, sometimes all together, sometimes everyone with everyone. Then one partner usually gets jealous because the other partner seemingly enjoys sex TOO much with someone else or has sex on the side without consulting the other. Then they get divorced, die, and go to hell. That's about it.
2006-07-15 03:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is actually prostitution in disguise of wife swapping, done in high societies because they don't want to go to low localities for their needs and still want to pamper themselves. so by mutual agreement they do wife swapping. of course it is with consent of all concerned because as i said earlier, it is just prostitution, which is also with consent of all concerned.
2006-07-15 03:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by neelakh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife swapping is when two married couples trade wives for sex its not a morle thing matter of fact it causes problems in relatinships and to be completely honest its nasty
2006-07-15 03:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife swapping is where two couples switch partners with each other and have sex. the other stuff i dont know about, because i never did it and will never do it.
2006-07-15 03:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exchanging wives for Fun
2014-12-26 13:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Vivek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋