Giving help these day, e.g. when you lend money to some people they will not pay back instead they ask for more, thinking that you have forgotten the first one. Why?
2006-07-15 02:32:16 · 5 answers · asked by joe 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
if you're gonna lend, lend only as much as you can afford to lose, and if they don't pay back and don't have a good enough reason, they're telling you something about themselves...shame on them.
2006-07-15 02:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are thieves. A thief always looks to seek an advantage. If he sees you as a patsy, then he will hound you over and over until you finally put your foot down and tell him no. Then he will move on to find another sucker. The best policy is not to lend money, but just give it and let it be understood that no more is available. Leave the option of returning the money on the conscience of the other person. In other words: let go.
2006-07-15 02:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a fool and his money are easily departed. if they are a friend or family member you are better off just giving them the money rather than loaning it. if you have to get it back then you dont really have it to give. by just giving them the money you are able to avoid the challenges you are facing and instead they will be grateful to you for being generous and hopefully this would improve the quality of your relationship with that person. on the other hand, dont be a sucker either.
2006-07-15 02:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by suavechulo007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are never to be trusted because they do not pay back they just mooch off of others
2006-07-15 02:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are stupid and think only of themselvez
2006-07-15 02:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋