Ok met this guy...we talked for a good while. Then we decided to finally meet. As soon as i got out of the car he gave me a friendly kiss on my lips. We ate at a mexican resturant (suppose to do take at). Went back to his apt to watch movies due to there isnt anything to do in our city. He sat real close to me...massaging my shoulders...telling me hes sorry but he cant help it due to hes so attracted to me. Then he kept asking to kiss me...
Well almost towards the end of the night...he was on the floor with me. He started kissing me...and tried to take my bra off and i stopped him..told him i liked him,but thats a little too fast.
So the night ended...he gave me another kiss and said i will talk to you tomorrow...
....needless to say its been a week and nothing....but hes been looking ar my profile to see what im up to ( due to it shows me who views my profiles ).
I should already know this answer....but did i get used?
Only thing he wanted really was sex that night, right??
2006-07-15 02:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sugar_Plumzz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I don't think he used you at all. He was definitely trying to get in your pants, that's for sure, but you stopped him before it went to that. Good for you, as that is way too fast to be 'knocking boots' with a total stranger you know very little about.
The 'buzzer' should have went off in your head when he kept trying to kiss you, massage you and get you back to his place. All the usual manipulations to get you out of your clothes.
So no, I don't think you were 'used', but you were obviously discarded by him not calling you. Be thankful he is not calling, because he now knows you don't compromise yourself by putting out on the first date, and that is what he wants....an easy lay.
Find yourself another guy who respects you and can treat you like a queen.
2006-07-15 02:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by BlueFire 4 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Well...it doesn't look good, but maybe (if he's still looking at your profile online) he's just a little embarrassed by how fast he moved.....although at the same time it looks like he just wanted one thing.....I wouldn't totally discount him...maybe even give him a call (just to say HI) and see where he takes it....but if he doesn't take the bait then you know that it's a lost cause.
Good Luck to you!!!
2006-07-15 09:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a douche, and he was just using you. I'm going to guess that you could do better. Trying to take your bra off on the first date shows he has no respect for you, move on.
2006-07-15 09:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo !!!! This guy stopped when you asked him to. He is still viewing your profile, so he is still interested.
He is waiting on you to make the next move!!!!!! You did say it was going too fast. He is letting you set the pace!
Sounds like a great guy so far.
2006-07-15 09:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweethvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound that way. I have been through the same thing. Wow you should be proud that you did not give into his desires! You need to stick to your guns! Their is someone out there that will respect you and want to know you for you and not for sex!
2006-07-15 09:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by nygnut2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is little different. You said only thing he wanted really was sex that night, right ??
NO..Only thing he wanted that night was to "start having" sex with you....Well, if you enjoy it you can allow him BUT his intention was clear to put you her in his list !!
2006-07-15 09:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by X P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were used
to avoid this happening again go to some place wherre where there are people around you like walking downtown or going to the mall
2006-07-15 09:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry u are right and I would forget that loser and move on.
2006-07-15 09:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. You are one sharp brawd I tell ya.
2006-07-15 09:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have learned a lesson in a hard way, you are right!!
2006-07-15 09:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋