Can a person find happiness within himself...... n doesnt need anybody around!!!! neither a person to make him smile nor any person for whom can he be a reason of smile??????? Its not about the smiles and fancies of life but also for the times, one sits down with slung shoulders........n a day to day necessity to be with people.
2006-07-15 02:18:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I hate being a loner but let me tell ya... it SUCKS.
but maybe its because i'm over weight and feel ugly. I am shy.
But on top of that it seems that every time i've tried to have a relationship it fails. I kind of feel like the guy out of "40 year old virgin"(all though that doesnt apply to me lol).
I kind of gave up on being happy. I cant have what i want so i just decided unless something comes up.. I'll be happy (well in a way). Im just tired of the games, the lies, the whoring, and everythign some women put men through.
Most of my life i've been like that. I could go to a movie alone and be fine. I can go to bars and find someone to talk to, but usauly just casual talk. Sit back watch the band, dance, whatever.
I just think loners are those who tried and failed.
2006-07-15 02:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by clomtancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow are you taking this to far !
Hey, just the way you explained your question to us, "as if we couldn't figure out what a loner was," is the very reason people become loners.
There are just far to many people who make life dis-tasteful for these people and they would rather not have to deal with it.
That is it. There is no un-found psychological problem there waiting to be discovered.
It's simply that they don't want to deal with crap.
2006-07-15 03:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to be alone.It cost too much for me to give of myself ,
only to need to deal with others.Most people don't agree with my
off-the-wall thinking & that's cool because I strive to be different.
I just don't like explaining how? or why? I do & say whatever I
want.I don't answer to anyone.I respect others opinion & rights.
By being alone,I don't need to have a buddy or pal to go anywhere.It's a hassle for me.I hope I've answered your question.
2006-07-15 03:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, generally our past experiences tend to influence our present and we dont even realize it. Time moves on n we need to move on too. one surely cannot be a loner. remember man is a social animal. coz if ur a loner then it wld only skyrocket ur frustration. Quote"Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us." hence make it for the best of our happiness n then pass it on.......
2006-07-15 02:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Alice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for a person to trick or lie to themselves that they don't need anybody else, but they are deceiving themselves as everybody needs somebody else!
2006-07-15 02:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by OneRunningMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋