From the eyes of both men and women.....
2006-07-15 02:12:44 · 15 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
from a mans view and personally from me. NO!NO!NO!
all man and woman are EQUAL! my dear...
do wat u feel is right for yrself and not forgetting yr kids too. u r alone struggling yr relationship problem and nobody to lean on when u need them most and yet to survive on yr own.
so, stand up! and tell yrself u CAN do it on yr own even without anybodys help.
hahaha. yahoo will still be here. dont worry....be happy...
p/s: its my pleasure and hope my answers helped or gave u some directions. glad that u :) and stay like that always and u will be fine throughout.
2006-07-15 02:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not in all cases:however, I believe that the one initiating that divorce is a quitter. Quitters are necessary sometimes if the other spouse is a piece. Either way, quitters are very low on my list of valued people. I am a very good man and I had a quitter throw me away because of her lack of values. Took a father away from her two sons that helped deliver them into this world and while caring for them, she found a bf at her work and through lies and deceipt made a whole new family complete with cousins, brothers, etc. Best part is, he is an abuser. I guess she could not take someone that idolized her more than anything else in the world and did 70% as opposed to the 50% traditionally. Gee wonder what I did wrong. Maybe it was providing the best sex available, coming home when expected, caring for the children, caring for the house, committing to one woman only. Problem was she was a quitter and you cannot identify a quitter until too late. We all know that won't happen again. If you are going to committ to someone, marriage is inconsequential to the committment.
2006-07-15 09:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how initiating a divorce would make a woman anything less than a real woman. That doesn't even make sense. What would make a woman less of a woman to me is if she's just staying with some guy because she thinks she has to.
2006-07-15 14:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It requires a lot of guts to initiate a divorce. Why stay on in an unhappy marriage? Only a real woman is man enough to do it!
2006-07-15 09:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the opposite. Of course, it depends on what country we're talking about, because of different customs, viewpoints, etc. But, in the USA anyway, I think a woman who initiates a divorce is saying, "...ok, that's it. I'm not taking one more day of your crap." THAT kind of woman has my respect. It's the woman who allows her husband to treat her like a doormat that makes me wonder.
2006-07-15 09:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she initiates the divorce for good reason, then she is more than just a real woman. She has guts.
2006-07-15 09:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons that she initiates the divorce for.
2006-07-15 10:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by dean_moriarty00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shows that she is determined to leave her husband tt's all. In today's world, everybody can initiate an divorce not necessary the husband.
2006-07-15 09:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less than a real woman?
That's an odd statement.
2006-07-15 09:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Joanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just because you were the one to take the first step shouldn't mean that you are the bad guy. You just got fed up quicker.
2006-07-15 09:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋