2006-07-15 01:40:00 · 9 answers · asked by msgman55 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i love oral, but i also love intercourse.
especially with the right couple!
my hubby and i love each other very much,but we also love other women. we sometimes go pick them up, or we pick up a couple.
though something people should understand about swinging and threesomes when they're in a relationship is that sex outside of said relationship(consented to by both parties of course) is just sex. you go home with your partner at the end of the evening.
my husband and i never had a problem with this, but we've come accross couples that do.
always remember that it's safe sex, or no sex!
2006-07-15 03:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women ABSOLUTELY ADORE recieving oral sex!!!!
Most of us get really turned on by giving it! (though there are many sticks in the mud)
I really couldn't speak for all women when it comes to which they prefer between oral and intercourse....I think it depends on a few factors!
They can BOTH be great, but many times it depends on your lover:
1) whether he/she is in tune with your body,
2)whether he/she really CARES that they make you feel good,
3)whether he/she really enjoys what they are doing to you.
4)whether he/she is patient enough to help you get through and enjoy new experiences.
It sometimes also depends on the womans sexual maturity... I believe that it takes some time for a woman to sexually mature, and that comes with experience! This is kinda hard for some to understand, so I'll try to explain what I mean in a simple way.
I am now 37, and sex life is fantastic, but it wasn't always that way. My first experiences were when I was around 16-17. Younger, inexperienced guys just seemed to think that making out for 5 minutes made us girls "ready" to screw! Yeah, it felt good to be touched there, and I thought once he was "in" it would be better..NOT SO!
It took me about 5 years before I EVER thought penetration felt good. Mind you, it didn't feel bad, it just didn't feel better than being played with!
The first time I recieved oral sex, I thought I would come unglued! So, for many years, that was the only real enjoyment I got out of sex. It took me a long time to get in tune with my body, and alot of that came with my willingness to experiment and then actually finding a man who took the time to awaken the desire in me. Then one day "it" happened. Intercourse actually felt great ! From that day on , I was more "awake" to everything...and then....I made the mistake of thinking that now I had experienced the best it would ever get! (which I was totally satisfied with)
Well, life and relationships go on, and we get older, and bored, and eventually open our minds and bodies to more experiences, and different lovers...and yes, all men (and women) are different...
as for anal...the first time it felt uncomfortable and degrading, the second time, not much different. In a different relationship, it actually started to feel a bit more than OK, in the next and current relationship (16yrs now) it was a hell no! (too big)...and then one day recently (armed with more knowledge and a few good tips)
It worked and was great!
So, what I'm trying to say is...WE GROW!!!
* Sex has gotten better as I have gotten older, OPENED UP MY MIND, not just my body...
and I think now I am fully awakened to it all.
At first, with intercourse, I could take it or leave it...
And wanted oral everytime....
NOW....
I WANT IT ALL...(in every sense of the word)
2006-07-15 09:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the woman. Some like giving oral, and not getting or, some are into penetrating, but not being pentrated. It all depends on how she indentifies, and what she likes/wants. Not all lesbians have the same sexual likes/wants.
2006-07-16 00:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love giving and receiving oral, receiving anal on rare occasion is ok in the right moment (and with plenty of lube)
2006-07-15 10:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When oral, penetration and anal are concerned, "It's All Good!" That means a woman is satisified and happy. They have to be done properly. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!
2006-07-15 20:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say more lol. And no to anal sex.
2006-07-15 09:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by scorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like all three
2006-07-15 10:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by blueyedangel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink oral is the best
anal seems...yicky to me
2006-07-15 11:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like 'em all. =P And so does my girlfriend.
2006-07-15 17:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋