why do wifes suddenly dislike giving oral sex after yrs of doing it with no problems,,,,,,,?

Answer 1

These are likely women who never "liked" giving head. They did it to get the guy! Some of them give up exercise, cooking, and lots of other stuff. too.

But then how many husbands give up bringing home flowers, opening car doors, and jumping through all kinds of hoops to get her into bed once they are married too?

Answer 2

Most likely she probably never liked it to begin with. Which leads us to the next question - if this was the case - How come you never knew she did not really like it? If you had a clue about this - why did you keep pressing her to perform?

Now lets go to other resons.
1) Are you really hung? Does she gag on you?
2) Do you wash your privates? If you don't how can you expect her to put it in her mouth?
3) Do you keep the hair around your privates trimmed? You don't have to be bald down there - but at least use a trimmer and keep it short and contained. Does your pubic hair wind up in her mouth?
4) Do you return the favor?
5) How long does it take you to have an ejaculation? Do you take forever to ejaculate? The poor womans mouth might have finally had it! I mean - if it takes you well over a half hour to *** - that is a heck of a thing to ask of anyone on a regular basis. Could you try limiting it - so no more than 5 minutes and then start pleasuring her?
6) Has she become more religious? Has some fundamentalist type preaching/literature gotten into her head and now she believes oral sex is wrong?

Answer 3

A couple thoughts:

1) are you hygenic? No one wants to suck on something that tastes like jock strap sweat.

2) Are you giving back to her? Cuz if you're not at least attempting orgasm parity, I would say that she is within her rights to say that she wont just be your willing love slave. You have to put out too.

3) Have you gotten really fat or unattractive? There is an element of false advertising if you were fit and healthy before you married and now you're a slob.

4) Are you doing your fair share outside the bedroom? If you're not lifting a finger around the house, if you're treating your wife like a maid, if you're depending on her to do all the common every day crap chores (cooking, cleaning, laundry, kid care, grocery shopping, etc), then she's probably too tired and too resentful to blow you.

5) Are you just being an asshole lately? Have you guys been fighting? She might not be revved up and raring to go with someone who has been treating her poorly.

6) Are you ever spontaneous or romantic anymore? When was the last time you brought her flowers for something not a major holiday? When was the last time you planned a romantic weekend away? When was the last time you hugged her and told her that you loved her, completely unsoliticed, at some random moment? Everyone needs to feel loved and appreciated. If you're not making her feel this, then she is not going to want to blow you.

So to sum up: bathe regualrly, give a little oral if you want to get a little oral, do a load of wash on a regular basis, think about hitting the gym (or at least getting off the sofa) and if you're having problems, consider seeing a counselor to fix them. And tell her that you love her.

Answer 4

first of all, micheal and lingua, y'all are on the money.
secondly, if her desire is fading due to menopause, or some other reason as that, it's age and changes going on in her.
hormonal imbalances are often the cause of sexual frustration for women(my personal experiance can attest to this).
it might not be that she dislikes it, she's just not in the mood to do so.
don't get me wrong, i love to suck a dic, but sometimes i just gotta be there to get there, in a way.
that and mabe this change in her behavior isn't as sudden as you think. maybe you didn't notice because the change was gradual. best of luck to you and wife.

Answer 5

I'm not sure why this is in the gay and lesbian section -- but -- perhaps because sexual desire is fading for her? Perhaps she never particularly liked to suck it for you -- and the need to keep you content is fading? Perhaps the two of you should talk about it - directly. If you can't do that, find a counselour and have him/her facilitate.

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Reynolds
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Answer 6

because u where dumb enough to step in a trap called mariage.
im stil single and still enjoying as much oral sex if i like

Answer 7

'Tis probably not that she suddenly dislikes it as much as she never did and is suddenly realizing she has the right to say no, especially if you don't return the favor.

Answer 8

Maybe because she never liked it in the first place, and only did it to please you. Or maybe it's because you told her that she should do it to show she loved you. That would get old very fast. Why dont' you ask HER? You'd do better to get the answer from her.

Answer 9

Maybe because the favor is not reciprocated? Or your head sucks so she doesn't want to give you any? Ask her?

Answer 10

This question is in the wrong area. It has nothing to do with GLBTQ issues.