he done it about 5 other times to but when i try to talk to him he wont talk to me except tells me he wasnt doin anything and i feel i am last to him that his friends come first cause at times he rathers spend time with them then me and at times i feel he is hiding stuff from me
2006-07-15 01:13:01 · 18 answers · asked by minnie43952 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I answered your previous question. If you have tried talking to him already then change the damn locks on him. Tell him you mean business. If you cannot come first in his life then nothing.
Let me tell you something! Women have a way of ignoring their instincts because they want to give the benefit of the doubt. I've told you once and I'll tell you again..... Don't be a fool and don't let him convince you that you are going crazy and that you are just a jealous person. My husband went as far as calling me "I Spy" cause I was getting more and more suspicious of "suspicious" behavior and started snooping.
I don't see why he would have to stay out all night and not even invite you to any of his "nights out." I'm telling you if it walks like a duck, it's a damn duck.
2006-07-15 01:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need friends and a little space in a marriage, but there is no reason to stay out all night. Actually for me, any minute I was away from my wife I felt bad. I wanted to be with her all the time because I loved her so much. She was my best friend, wife, the mother of my son etc. When she started to not come home after work until late, I knew she lost the love she had for me. We are now separated after 12yrs and she is seeing someone else. So, I believe he does not love you anymore or enough to care about how you feel.
2006-07-15 01:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband did the same things a few years back and he was cheating on me, my advice to you is check it out if you have doubt, I hope he is not cheating on you because I would never wish that on anyone, it hurts so bad, does he have a cell phone ? check the incoming and outgoing no#s , buy a voice recorder they can record for hours and when hes getting ready to leave put it somewhere in his car or truck and when he gets home play it when hes not around,see what happens , I wish you the best but something sounds not right to me with all this , I hope im wrong
2006-07-16 03:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him calmly that you are leaving him, and pack up and leave. Don't give him any explaination. Let him panic a little and let him be the one to ask for the reasons, then you can pour your heart out and if he cares for you, he will do something about it.
If his reaction is negative, you are better off without him anyway. Find a better guy, you deserve better than this.
2006-07-15 01:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always believe "women's instinct" . So what do you feel? If you feel that he is having an affair the decision is yours whether to stay or to move on.
It hurts enough to hear that you are last on his list - if it was me I would pack my bags and leave.
I would want to be with someone who doesn't take me for granted. He must remember that you have feelings too.
Being married is not all about him alone but it is about both of you.
2006-07-15 01:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Azil-em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you go get a room and stay out all night if he isnt doing anything he'll want to talk then if he doesnt say anything then its time to move on cause someone done came through the back door
2006-07-15 07:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't live with what he's is doing than don't. After veiwing your thoughts to him and he still hasn't got the picture than stop wasting your time. You can't have a relationship alone, and all you are doing is punishing yourself for his behavior. Say no more and if he goes with that than let him go.
2006-07-15 01:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by davidjudyrices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would wait one night when u left again , get me stuff and left so when he came back home the next day u would not be there then he will know tha u was tried of him do that to u and maybe he will think why did i do that .
2006-07-15 03:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him you love him, but he needs come home at night or you might leave him! I think He will understand if he says go ahead find another man.
2006-07-15 03:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by billyholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with his friends he feels more open and free for be what he really is. If you feel alone write me I'm Italian from Rome
2006-07-15 01:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by steve stefano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋