i no wat i wanna do! i wanna kick her *** cuz im sick and tried of her saying **** bout me i swear. iight right now im going through a serious breakup and she told ma other bestfriend that what i did to my man was wrong.holdup!!!!thats the same chick who tried to get wit ma man while i still was going wit him.every boy i liked she liked. its just ****** up im pissed off right now!now she like ma bestfriend bf i mean she a backstabber i swear yo im just pissed off right now.she will do stuff then play dummy like she dont no wat she did.she will talk bout some1 one minute then the next minute she would go hug em. i mean whats that? its called phoney !! did u ever have this probelm.
2006-07-15 01:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by seeming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, I did have this problem. And I got rid of my problem too.
Because she really is not your friend. She is showing you who she really is. She could be saying things about you too. You need to be careful. People that talks about other people behind their back and in the next minute can hug them are really called COWARDS, she will be afraid to say what she said in front of them... because she knows what will happen. Believe me if she is doing it to others she IS doing it to you too. It just hasn't gotten back to you because people see her near you alot. Seperate from her and watch how much stuff she has said about you. Believe me I have been there. She is NOT your friend. And it will only get worse. Her mouth will get you into a lot of unwanted fights and losing a lot of friends.
2006-07-15 01:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA! First of all my friend, calm down. I know you are upset, but you have to learn not to give that kind of power to others. Only you can control your emotions and how you will respond to this and other situations. I know you're upset and you have every right to be - but look at it this way - you are not only allowing the stress of the breakup get to you, but now others have put themselves into the mix and you have coupled your stress with that too. Why? Don't let them see you sweat. Walk away. Get yourself to a park, read, relax, think, pray and find the peace you need in order to keep stress and wayward negative thinking out of your mind. You don't want to push buttons of hurting people. You don't have to be like them. Love them anyway. They are the losers and you will be the winner because you will have found a way to deal with these issues in a positive manner which will help you maintain your blood pressure (health), your mind (peace and joy) and you can move forward and let those things stay behind. You don't need a friend like that. You already know. So, rather than kick up dust - just leave her be. You don't have to talk to her, you don't have to involve anyone else in the matter, you don't have to discuss it. I know al this sounds easier said than done, but I over the years, I have found that the best way to 'get to them' is to 1) leave them be or 2) be so sweet that they think you are crazy. Either way - you're the winner. Don't let them win. Stay calm.
2006-07-15 08:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar experience, not with a guy or anything just with the friend turning evil. I think you should spend some time with your other friends, your sister(s)(if you have any) anyone except her..and show her you don't need her, do something relaxing like go to see a movie and just take her out of your mind, you don't need someone like that..she'll just make you feel sad and depressed and you don't need that..sounds like she has some major issues, I hate 2-faced people, trust me, you're better off with out her. xxx
2006-07-15 08:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem. First, you must leave her. Make sure it is clear that that girl is no longer your friend. People may believe her due to your friendship status. Leave her and ignore her. Confrontation is alright but do not hurt her in a way that will get you in trouble because it merely pleases her.
2006-07-15 08:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I had been thru such situation once and it was difficult for me coming out of it and I learned below by my experiences during it.
Tell your bf or frends before hand, talk to them all at your first chance about your friend so that they do not get carried away by ur friends actions.
2006-07-15 08:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by AreAce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her, are these rumors are did you hear it with your own ears. Sounds like you have a problem with trust and understanding. Be the bigger person, it may be hard but if you don't want to be as "phony" as she is then you have no choice. Don't let people take advantage but be th bigger person and you will reap your rewards.
2006-07-15 08:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and she will eventually go away.She is nothing but a trouble maker. Give her the flick, make sure she knows she is not welcome in your circle and move on.
2006-07-15 08:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friends close and your enemies (or fake *** friends)closer.
2006-07-15 09:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by theb!tchuhated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure honey, don't sweat it, she'll be seen for what she really is. Calm down. Don't let HER get to you like that, your letting HER WIN!!!!!
2006-07-15 08:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just unload this person, and move on with your life.
2006-07-15 08:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋