My boyfreind and his cousin are almost like brothers, and since I have been with my boyfriend for more than 2 yrs now, I have seen and hang out a lot with him and his cousin. (We even go on vacations together). Since he's like a brother to him I consider him like the brother I never had. Latly his cousin and I have gotten a lot closer, and whenever we all hang out he seems to only want to talk to me. He constantly wants to hang out with my boyfreind and I. He's always leaves me funny little comments or messages at this freind website thing called myspace, (at least once a day), and my boyfreind even told me once that he told him that he thought i was hott. (hence they have the same taste in girls). I never noticed all this until my boyfreind came to me and mentioned that were getting really close and that he thought he liked me. At 1st I seriously thought he was going crazy, but as i thought abuout it more, it made more sence. Let me know what you guys think.
2006-07-15 01:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by Lissi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, it seems like his cousin is into you... for some reason girls assume boys are more trustworthy than they really are! Question you're asking is what do you do about it. Only you know your relationship with him, but you may want to mention something like, "hey, that's a little close" and bring your boyfriend closer instead. Or say something like "easy there, I'm already taken". You want to be gentle and joking, but let him know the advances are a little uncomfortable if they are uncomfortable for you. It shouldn't hurt the friendship if you're both mature, and you sound like a good person looking for a way out of this little triangle thing, while getting his cousin to back off a little. Make sure you and your boyfriend don't always get stuck with a third wheel, and make sure your boyfriend isn't afraid to tell his cousin you're not hanging out together because you 2 need your alone time. Keep everything honest and keep a couple days a week for just you and your boyfriend. He'll get the hint you need a little space. good luck.
2006-07-15 01:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by chris m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 03:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sound`s like it`s make your mind up time, do you want to stay with your boyfriend or go with his cousin, maybe after 2 years you fancy a change but really you should choose someone away from your boyfriend`s family, as I can imagine the fall out that will happen if you and his cousin get together, trust me it will not be pleasant!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 08:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my freinds have told me that thier family likes thier girlfreind. so i think yes!
2006-07-15 08:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Aracuse M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are interested in him as well. Be careful!!!
2006-07-15 08:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the secret of sex interest.
2006-07-15 08:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋