Why do women ask where have all the good men gone , when all they want is his paycheck .?

Question

If women really want a good man why do they always go out with guys that treat them like manure ?

Answer 1

I don' t know either. I will say I'm one of those who just want a good guy and not his money. I got one! But I have two girl friends who are unmarried and miserable because all they're dating are rich a$$holes. It's true that a lot of women put it on themselves. I guess they're looking for security which isn't a bad thing but sometimes extremely successful men do have egos that come with it.

One of these friends almost dumped a guy because he "only made 50 grand a year" Umm..... so? I make twice as much as my husband and what do I care? We're happy. He treats me great. We have two great kids so... money was never a factor in our relationship.

I'd avoid the girls who date for money!

Answer 2

Women do have a hard time finding a good man, esp. since each had a diff idea of what is a good man! Women do like excitiement too, so the bad boy intrigue- we are human too. A paycheck is one form of security, which is very important to most women, and shopping [family support genes/gathering] is also a vested interest for most and need that financial input. Hope this helps, but I suspect you were asking rhetorical questions...

Answer 3

I love to be treated nicely by guys, although I don't believe in having them pay for everything. I work, so I can pay my own bills. When I look in a guy, I want to know if he'll be a gentleman and treats me with respect. I don't want a guy who approaches me just because he wants to get laid. I think some women want guys' money because they know guys want sex in return after spending all that much money on women.

Answer 4

I think you got it right.

Any woman who claims she'd stay with a guy just for love is probably lying.

There is some financial scheming going on there. She has to know that she can maneuver him into making more and earning more. Otherwise she will most likely move on.

Answer 5

If that's what you truly think of women, then you're probably not one of the good ones. I can't speak for all women but I can tell you that what I look for in a man is someone who will love me, appreciate me, and respect me, FOR ME. Had that once in my life and I fear I never will again.