2006-07-15 01:08:26 · 26 answers · asked by Tadiwa T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sex is sometimes painful the first time, only have sex witha person that respects you and likes you enough to respect your needs. the fiorst time is never the best and is the time that is most likely to hurt and be uncomfortbale. you will know what to do wh the time comews. just use protection and treat sex with respect. good luck tp you, hope it gos well for you.
2006-07-15 01:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by jame_football 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first couple of times it can be painful or uncomfortable because that part of your body hasn't been used before. It also depends on how excited or stressed you are about having sex.
As for how do you do it. I won't answer that because going into details is not right.
When you are ready to have sex and you are with someone who respects and loves you the "How" part of your question will be natural. You will figure it out.
I personally wanted to try it because I had heard so many things, it hurt or it wasn't a big deal. But for me, I waited until I was absolutely ready for sex. For women, sex is more a mental trip, than a physical one like for men. Just be sure you are ready before embarking on sex.
2006-07-15 08:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by moniqu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think people should know how old you are before you ask questions like this. Then people might be a little more considerate with their answers.
Just the first few times can be a little uncomfortable. After that one's body adjusts. A lot of the discomfort is because one is tense and unsure - that is why you should always think of it in terms of 'making love', not 'sex'.
This site is really telling parents what to tell pre-teens about sex but it is the most useful link I could find.
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/teensexuality/a/teen_sex_talk.htm
2006-07-15 09:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first couple times will hurt for the women. But you will learn to love it. Try and stretch yourself out with a vibrator so you have the power and don't have issues with men for the pain of opening your vaginal canal. If you develop a healthy attitude towards sex you will be better off in life.
As for man on man sex you'll need to get that answer from someone who swings that way.
2006-07-15 10:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's painful the first time but after that you shouldn't have any pain...u really don't know how to have sex???WOW how old are u??Guys penis goes in a girls vagina....thats all there is to it!
U don't sound old enough to be having sex...but if u do decide to do it make the guy wear a condom,okay....u don't want no pregnancy or std's(sexually transmitted diseases)..std's are nasty business....(some of them can even make it were you can become infertile and not be able to have kids when u do want them,like when your older..also u can get aids...so make sure the guy wears a rubber..EVERYTIME!!!!!!!)i cannot stress that enough...hope i helped...stay safe!!! And remember No glove,No love!!!!
2006-07-15 08:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can be painful the first time but i wouldnt rush in to any thing you are not ready for enjoy going out with your mates and dont worry about sex the time will come and you will no when it is right
2006-07-15 10:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by jason d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does that mortar board on your head mean you just graduated from kindergarten? Sex is for adults. Do you have a mom & dad? Do they know you are a future $lut? What is this world coming to?
2006-07-15 08:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is sweet pain
2006-07-15 08:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by dixie4570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need a man that is experienced and at first it is painful but then it is ok
dont worry
2006-07-15 16:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by miz_roudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets meet.
2006-07-18 07:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Evil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋