2006-07-15 01:00:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry him. For 6 months. And then take him to the cleaners. We'll use the money for that Jamaica trip we've been wanting!
Seriously. If you can't imagine living the rest of your life without him, marry him. If you can't imagine what you'd do if you had to spend the rest of your life with him- don't do it. Conversely- communicate this with him and allow him the opportunity to consider the same.
Best of luck, MJ!
2006-07-17 16:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Antny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with marriage if you do not trust your guy.
See marriage includes the security of getting some settlement in case of the relationship did not work out.
Go without marriage if you 100% trust your guy to never do anything to hurt you.
Marriage at the end of the day is just a contract, we shouldn't need contracts to safeguard true love.
2006-07-15 08:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married rarely affects the committment of one to another. We are taught that to marry committment is necessary but people like my ex wife have made a mockery of the institution of marriage using it as a meanns of financial gain as opposed to beliefs of the sanctity of the bond represented by the unity of two committed people. I would rather have a committed one manwoman outside the bonds of matrimony and respect the total committment than to have a marriage of adultry. It is not the institution but the contents and feelings that are protected by it. It is too bad that one is no longer representative of the other. Our values are so screwed up now that marriage is no longer one of the items that a person is proud to voice in public but one is looked at like he/she is mentally deficient when they boast of marriage. Committment is the more valuable of the two if you as me.
2006-07-15 09:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A co-living arrangement relationship is saying, I really don't think that marriage will work out for us. For without marriage, we can just go out separate ways when we decide to. This implies mistrust in each other, and also mistrusting ourself.
2006-07-15 08:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My view is to stay get married...because man lives for others. When he is a child he lives for his parents and siblings, when he is a teenager, he lives for his friend, when married, he lives for his family, when he becomes a parent, he lives for his children, and when he becomes old, all the people named above want him to live among them....In essence its marriage thatz da seal the bond of togetherness !
2006-07-15 08:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are committing yourself to eachother why not make it legal. Depends on how serious you are about eachother. Are you afraid that someday you'll want to part ways therefore you won't have all the legalities of a divorce to contend with?
2006-07-15 08:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care more about ur loved one, get married.
you know Live is about sacrifices and forgivings. There is gonna be lil problems when u marry someone, but its all based on love.
If you care more about yourself, stay single,
You will have to do some sacrifices and overlook their mistakes, there will be problems. but it all boils down to one Question,
Do you want to make ur life beautiful or both your lives beautiful?:)
If you want to live for your love, i would say, Get married:)
2006-07-15 08:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Darlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage brings responsibilities towards society ,ur family, ur children .....to shoulder those responsibilities u need commitment.... How can u be commited without having no responsibilities at all....so marriage is first step towards commitment..
2006-07-15 08:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marraige is a commitment of being together in thick n thin of life. Go get married!
2006-07-15 08:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by AreAce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally will get married. If we trust , love and respect to each other the correct way is to get married. So God will bless your relationship.
2006-07-15 08:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mamarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋