I am just wondering why my ex is so angry /hate me? I initiated the contact just to get things done. Settle unfinished business so to speak. I haven't seen him for about 10 years. In the beginning, things were fine but later on I am being accused again of getting on his nerve and nagging him? I just want to get this over and done with but he makes it so hard and complicated. I don't understand his signals anymore. I don't understand whether he wants me to leave him alone or not. But from what I know he has lots of women in his life. I am not the reason why we separate. I can't remember anything that I have done to hurt him this much.
2006-07-15 00:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Azil-em 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am trying to get documents from him to be able to register our daughter's birth. My daughter is already 15.
2006-07-15 00:52:47 · update #1
get a lawyer to contact him and dont have any more personal contact with him. he knows he can still hurt you and and it make him feel tough. he knows he cannot have you and wants to make you as miserable as he can. he is bitter over the mistakes he has made in his life and loosing you is one of the worst. get what you need done and move on.
2006-07-15 00:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by mongo862001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I will answer just the heading of the question. I was married 12yrs to my wife and she moved out and left me and our son. I love her more now than the day we married. I will always love her. For me, once I feel in love with her it was forever. No matter how bad the marriage got and even now that she is seeing someone else, I still love her. I can't find a reason that would stop me from loving her. I may not like the person she is now but love, to me never ends.
2006-07-15 01:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get the business taken care of and move on with your life. If he is acting obnoxious and short tempered with you then it's a further sign that you two do not have a future. Don't try to analyze it and try to fix it. It is what it is and he's being what made you break up. There's more to life than dealing with negativity. Good luck.
2006-07-15 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could recommend you to point that the two one among you circulate to counseling, if he needs to contemplate a 2nd possibility. you may desire to have somebody who can stand back and look on the region objectively hear to the the two one among you. Why have been you divorced interior the 1st place? i think of you're lonely and have been feeling vulnerable because you have been upset that your infants had left. you may desire to evaluate that the two one among you're bringing bags to the table. How could your infants sense approximately this? only because of the fact there seems be be adulthood in him that wasn't modern-day 9 years in the past does not recommend there somewhat is something distinctive approximately his character. a man or woman is what he's. He could modern-day a touch distinctive equipment on the exterior, however the interior is what counts. take a seat and make a catalogue of the experts and cons approximately him. circulate to counseling, and hear what the counselor has to declare.
2016-11-02 02:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is acting like that there is something underneath it all to stir up his reactions. I think the only thing to do is come out and honestly confront him and out and out ask him. Let him know the actions he is taking is making you crazy and what is going on for him to act that way.
2006-07-15 00:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Doll_f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to respond without knowing what "it" is that you need to get done. Final dissolution signed? Some kind of emotional need on your part? What is it that you want to get over and done with?
2006-07-15 00:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of being jerked around and manipulated do you like? Hurt, angry, manipulative people are best kept at a distance.
2006-07-15 00:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because he has so many women in his life. I mean, he's not used to letting them get away. I think it hurts his ego. He probably still has some kind of feeling for you but they get in the way of his love for himself!
2006-07-15 00:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I talked to my ex-wife, I told her I missed her.
But I'd aim better tomorrow.
2006-07-15 00:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mortis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for your own mental health
MOVE ON....
after 10yrs?
leave him a lone
get professional advice/help
2006-07-15 00:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by jaggedart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋