why always the sad event does not get erased?
2006-07-15 00:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
of course you cannot forget the sad moments in our lives it's what define and teaches us for the next time. but of course we should think of the joyous moment to get through this sad and lonely world we live in.
If we only think of the sad moments in our lives then the Psychiatric ward/Rehabilitation centers/Mental Hospitals are not enough for us.
2006-07-15 02:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by von1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've to think very hard to remember a joyous moment. But sad moments seem to be burned into my memory and are very difficult to forget.
It's probably because most of us take joyous moments for granted, and don't spend enough time appreciating and reliving these joyous moments. On the other hand, we spend more time mulling over sad moments wishing that they never happened, thus continually refreshing our memories of these sad moments.
2006-07-15 04:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dan O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its what you want to remember. It tells you more about your thinking .. how you approach life. If you are a person who is most of the times stay in negative shades, you will remeber more of sad moments but if you are person who courageous and happy go lucky .. have a positive attitude towards life you will remmber good times.
One basic thing..
You have to live this life. its your own journey.. why crib over somethign that happened... why not enjoy the moments you have and rmbr those precious times you enjoyed...
2006-07-15 17:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Prajakta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAD MOMENTS TEND TO STICK WITH PEOPLE LONGER BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES THEY ARE THE END OF THE JOYOUS MOMENTS. FOR INSTANCE WHEN SOMEONE DIES, WE TEND TO REMEBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES BUT ALWAYS END UP REMEMBERING THEIR DEATH AS WELL BEAUSE THAT'S WHEN ALL THE GOOD TIMES STOPPED. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH REMEMBERING THE SAD MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE BECUASE IF WE ARE REMEBERING THEM IT IS ONLY BECAUSE WE REALLY LOVED SOMEONE. BOTH ARE A PART OF WHO WE ARE AND WHO WE BECOME AND NOT MEANT TO BE FORGOTTEN.
2006-07-15 05:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by cutelea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad moments remain in memory for a longer time than happy moments
2006-07-15 00:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by kooldan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the joyous... sad moments are not meant to stay... so i dont mind them.. what is done is done.. what had happen had happened! forget them and learn from them!
2006-07-15 01:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by unpretty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question..it's like the good moment become something you have to try and remember and the bad moments are just there in your head waiting to jump out at ya!
2006-07-15 00:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad moments.Those are very difficult to forget.
2006-07-15 00:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
joyous
2006-07-15 00:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by symonnex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋