The story:Im already married.My boss' son,will be marrying his girl by the end of 2003.He trained in our depart.During this time,as he observes that my hubby is somehow taking me for granted,maybe he'd pitied me&tries to show&make me feel through his words.I noticed his warmth&special kind of caring.I tried very hard to be strong¬ to ruin my relationship with my hubby&his relationship with his girlfriend.But because we are both "good" to our relationships,I felt that we both supressed our feelings bec I felt that he also knew that the outcome would not be nice.So he got married&eventhough itwas painful,still am happy for him.Now he has his own family,with a kid same age as one of my kids&will be having her 2nd bday.I plan to invite them but I knew it would somehow hurt him.If wouldnt invite him,Im afraid that he'd think i forgot them or really not invited them.If they will be at the party,i wouldnt feel at ease bec of the tension of him being around.Do u think they will attend? help
2006-07-14 23:47:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your instincts. What do you think? If you feel that you are going to be uncomfortable with them there, then don't invite them. This is your child's birthday party. Unless this child is his child also, you are not obligated to invite him. If it is his child, then do consider it. It might not be as hard as you think. Besides, you will be so busy with the party that you won't have any time to think about how you are feeling. Just make sure you look good girl.
2006-07-14 23:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both let something happen that never should've, maybe not "technically" but I'm sure the significant others would not be ok with that behavior. You were both emotionally irresponsible and owe it to your current relationships to put this in the past and keep it there where it belongs!!
2006-07-15 06:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sinurgy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go honey, both have to much at steak to ruin over something that never happened. Invite him and family as friends, if they show up fine, if not than thats fine too!
2006-07-15 06:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by sunni1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what you get for cheating
2006-07-15 06:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go if you really love your husband, would you want your husband to do the same to you?
2006-07-15 06:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋