My ex best friend is in depresion, she thinks that she's fat, she drinks a lot... what can I do about her?

Question

She's drinking a lot, has problems with her self feestine and most of the time is under presure and very nervouse, she don't know how to relax... but on the other hand she allways cowers her problems and trys to give a good impresion of herself... I'm very afraid that this depresion end in bed way... becouse 3 weeks ago my ex scoolmate comited a suecide... and there is so many conections in problems of those two...

Please,give me a piece of advice, please!!!

Answer 1

hi tamara... that's really bad. was she fat before???? if so then she might think that she's fat now. my classmate was fat before but now she's so slim. only to find out that she's bulimic. in that case of ur best friend, try to talk to her. say something nice about her like saying... your'e more slimmer than my sister .. ask what is wrong and try to listen.... never advice anything unless she said so... your'e best friend needs your help.... try to sleep over with her.. have fun with your friend... don't let her drink ... instead give her soda or juice.... you can save your friend.... pray for her..

Answer 2

How old is your friend? does she live alone?

This is bad news. The alcohol apparently numbs her up. Is there anything you can do to keep her from drinking? I'd try and talk to her about making a positive change and lose weight. Once she starts seing some results, she'll feel better about herself. Right now, it's all a vicious circle... alcohol makes you fat and (sometimes) when you're blitzed, you eat more, then you gain more weight and get even more depressed and drink more, etc.
She needs to understand that and break the cycle.
It's very difficult, but the change has to come from her. Best you can do is be there and talk to her.

Answer 3

i won t to say be step by step with your friend
and dont live him alone ok be the god father to him ok
and good look

Answer 4

JUst always be at her side