ok has anyone ever asked you for help that you met on yahoo or any other messenger i have a friend on messenger and she wants to come live with me until she gets on her feet financially. i have only known her for a short while what should i say to her?
2006-07-14 22:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by kiol2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ummmmm...if you've never actually have met the person,then definitely NO!!!!If she needs help getting on her feet financially..she could get assistence,better job(or another job),get a roommate to help pay bills...well there is stuff she can do....doesn't this person have family that can help ?
No one has ever asked me that on messenger and if they did i would say no..if they persisted to bug me they would go on my ignore list....Tell your friend that u feel for her situation,but she needs to figure out something else cause she's not staying with u...if she asks why...just tell her your not comfortable with that..(her living w/u..when u really don't know her)besides if u don't know the person..she could rob u blind..or mooch off u...or heck kill u in your sleep..u don't know this person!She could clean u out...make other suggestions to her...if she can't afford where she's living right now maybe she could get a roommate,or maybe she could move in w/family for a while....all i have to say is tell her NO!!!!N.O.!!!!!There should be other help for her around wherever your friend lives anyways..maybe she should find out what the programs are and if she quilifies for assistence..and if she's that in debt(don't know what kind of debt but if it's like credit cards and stuff) maybe she should file bankruptsy......Also there's gotta be low income housing around were your friend lives we have that around here anyways...so that would help...she could go to churches and get food....(that would save her money) also don't know if she'd qualify for food stamps....also we have stuff around where i'm from that will help pay like one month utilities...or a months rent..things like that..u just have to check into them to see if u qualify..so there probably is help out there for your friend...your friend just needs to know where to look!!!
2006-07-14 23:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't -you really do not know this person well enough, she could be a thief/mass murderer on worst case senario. Why can't she stay where she is? Why does she want to stay with you? Whats the problem with her finances? Could she drag you down financially too? Something is very wrong there!
2006-07-14 22:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by kaliri2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
]Dear kio12001:
They are doing this almost daily;giving advise;sharing emotions when someone is sad or in grief;sorting technical problems.I give medical advice being a qualified doctor. Believe me if I say that sometimes I has to make referrence to medical books to be certain that no ill-concieved advice is given.
Then kio when it comes to material help you hesitate!!!!!!
Knowing her for only a short time is not an excuse. You said that she is YOUR friend.If you want to be cautious then make the following steps:
#speak to her in person or by phone;
#visit her if possible;and then
#accept her or apogolize and contiue to be her freind.Please help her.
2006-07-14 23:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by mustafaalnagar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be anyone,i would not let anyone i knew for a short while move in with me,she could take all your stuff or once she gets her feet in your place you might never get rid of her,you might feel sorry for her,but think about yourself and your own privacy good luck
2006-07-14 22:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THIS IS A NO BRAINER, NO, YOU DON'T KNOW HER AT ALL, SHE COULD BE A THIEF, MURDERER, ANYTHING. STEER CLEAR, SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS TRYING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE AND I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WOULD ENTERTAIN THE THOUGHT FOR ANYMORE THAN HALF A SECOND. DON'T WALK AROUND WITH "MUG" WRITTEN ON YOUR FOREHEAD ALL YOUR LIFE. X
2006-07-18 12:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break contact or get to know her better by some other source
2006-07-14 23:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by lyla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to forget about it. I am also ready to live with you, if u r that much good.
2006-07-14 22:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋