I am 34 weeks pregnant with our 2nd child. My husband seems to think sex this time is gross??? We had sex all the way until the end with our son, but now he acts like he doesnt want to. We have tried a couple times and you know that there is discharge that may come out and he thinks its from the baby. Has anyone elses partner ever acted weird with pregnant sex?? I thought maybe its weird to him cuz we are having a girl this time?? I cant figure it out
2006-07-14 21:20:06 · 13 answers · asked by Mommaof2 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Maybe this time you are a little bigger and it's more noticeable. Also, maybe it's more real that there is a baby inside since you had your son.
Every pregnancy book talks about this, it happens and it's not your fault. Give yourself a break.
2006-07-14 21:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With my first pregnancy we had sex like 3-5 times a day EVERYDAY up untill the night before i had her, i am 21 weeks now and he just does not seem as interested in sex, i have no idea why maybe he is weirded out, when i ask him he says hes tired. Guys can be weird sometimes, If you want it and he does not want to put out, RAPE HIM, i'm sure he will not mind too much :)
2006-07-15 04:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by loca_mami13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sex is perfectly ok as long there are no complications. i have never experienced that with my first 2 pregnancies i had to fight him off of me every five minutes. he may be scared even though you have had another baby. also ask him to come with you to the doctor so you can reassure him that everything is perfectly normal and that the discharge is not from the baby. i don't have any other suggestions do you have any for a husband that is constantly wanting it lol? Good Luck!
2006-07-15 04:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by marie_angel01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like that, but my husband was afraid to have sex with me while pregnant because he thought that he might hurt the baby. Sure he's a well endowed man, but he isn't that big. The ego.
2006-07-15 04:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by reihino087 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband discharge is normal as long as it is not bloody it has to do with your hormone increasing it is safe to have sex and it wont hurt the baby it is very well protected by the way with increased moisture there is a higher risk of a yeast infection
2006-07-15 04:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by ron b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can try a oral sex for him.Sometime men is like that,he just boring to having a sex .When i was pregnant ,my husband also need but sometime i will give oral sex for him so after i birth my child,he still won't feel boring with me.Maybe can help.
2006-07-15 04:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O well you should of had my husband because he was always for sex pregnancy or no pregnancy but it was me who did't want sex in later pregnancy
2006-07-15 07:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by m41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey woman.. cant u wait 4 a few more weeks ,its better not to have sex in late pregnancy
2006-07-15 04:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by wombat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby wouldn't with our second either I don't know why he just said it was wierd he felt funny and it was awkward with the belly...Just wait until he won't be able to keep his hands off ya those six weeks...It's great being desired and he can't have ya!!
2006-07-15 13:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by *bossy* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 4 months pregnant and my husband wants to have sex alot just becuz my doctor told me i cant but you might want to talk to him he might be upset or worried about something and just not want to tell you becuz your pregant he dont want to hurt your feeling and make you cry just try to talk to him and see how that goes
2006-07-15 04:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋