2006-07-14 20:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by Dre D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
That's a tough one. Does her mother know? If so, and you two are separated, then your daughter should know the reason. Probably the best thing to do is to be honest with everyone involved, and make sure your daughter knows that you will love her no matter what, and you will be there for her for the rest of your life. Bless you and good luck!
2006-07-14 20:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by superfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know I really don't think it would be a good idea right now to do that. This is a really awkward time for a girl this age. You know the puberty thing, the boys, the peer pressure, hormones...
This is the age where they start to figure out where they fit in socially, and while many youth could care less, there are equally as many that would really give her a hard time, or at least a hard time for her considering all the stuff she will go through the next few years.
Besides, in a few years she will probably figure it out on her own, or at least be in a place where the revelation from you will not be so hard on her place within her peer group.
The last thing you want is her to reject you, or worse act out in a manner that would harm her emotionally, physically, or make her feel like she is not like everyone else. We know she is, but again at this age....
I sincerely hope that whatever you decide to do, that you and your daughter will not be seriously disrupted within your relationship.
Good luck to you
2006-07-15 03:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way too start off telling her is, I'm gay that means i rather have a same gender relationship than explain the positives and negatives than tell her how a different gender relationship is than tell her the positive and negatives then tell her its a complete choice that you made too make you happy and wait until shes a Little older because talking to an 11 year old is like talking too a brick wall.
2006-07-15 04:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by dont_wait_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preferably not , at her age ,too young to rational. You are bi , or else where you got your 11 years old daughter ?
2006-07-15 04:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is best don't tell.wait till she matured to hear the real news of gay
2006-07-15 03:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with words and love she will still love or our you a shamed to be gay and if she ask questions answer them with the Truth
2006-07-15 03:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by steve a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! you're having problems telling your daughter that you're homosexual? where's all that gay pride you guys have!
2006-07-15 04:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss a guy in front of her or don't tall her at all
2006-07-15 04:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by stuppy dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT she is too young
2006-07-15 09:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋