i have trouble facing hubby for few reasons.
wanted divorce but too softed heart.
no one to share. my trouble, softed heart and never want to take people advice. wish to find people can let me pour my troubles and concern.
2006-07-14 19:33:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds as if you don't have much of a support system. Maybe you should seek therapy because it sounds as if you may be using the term soft hearted as a more positive name for something that isn't so positive.
2006-07-14 19:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to let someone know what you want to do and when. You never know what will happened when you say those words. Better safe then sorry. I wish I can help on the soft heart because I am too and I really can't get past that. You can talk to me too if you like. I've been there and I was already seeing a counselor and after several visit of helping me get prepared. The nite that I had planned on telling the news. I had my friend with me to be on the safe side. I suck to my ground and was able to get it to come out of my mouth. I have to tell you, I was very nervous and once I started talking I felted better and was able to hold my ground. You can do the same.
2006-07-14 19:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a soft heart is a good thing. Compassion and caring should never be looked at as a bad thing.
As far as the hubby, if you can see if you can remember why you fell in love with him. Try to rekindle the flame of love.
If you can not, then talk to him about divorce.
2006-07-14 19:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww... I don't know if I have any advice for you, as I don't really know what your situation is. Things can be very difficult when you are feeling trapped in a situation. If you have no one to share your thoughts with now, you should find some friends. I know that this is can be a very difficult thing to do, but there are ways and places to meet people. Like here! message me... I write! :D
Maybe learn to grow some strength... You don't have to harden your heart, but you can toughen up a little.
I wish you the best. Be strong.
2006-07-14 19:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Petey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are stuck. You have to live your life for yourself and no one else. Its not easy is it? I never thought it was and I'm a "Big mouth"! Life is always a learning process and you have to learn to have what you want in life because you are only going though this life once so you better figure out what you want or learn to live with it. I'm sorry, I wish i could make you feel better by saying something magical for you. I just hope your life goes better and you are well, if you are healthy you are very lucky. There, that is something to be very thankful for and entire year for!
2006-07-14 19:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I was married for 4 years, and I realized serious problems like abuse, mental or physical don't ever go away. You are not being soft heared by waiting - slowing the inevitable is actually cruel.
2006-07-14 19:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by starfruitlily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUND LIKE YOU NEED SOMEONE TO REALLY TALK TO
LIKE A FAMILY MEMBERS OR COUNSELING, BUT YOU NEED
STOP BEING SOFT HEART AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL
BE A FRIEND OR SUPPPORT SYSTEM.BUT DONT LET THIS
OR ANYTHING BRING YOU DOWN. LIFE IS A WONDEFUL
JOURNEY AND YOU JUST NEED TO FIND YOUR PATH.
GOD BLESS. I PRAY FOR YOU. HANG IN THERE. THERE
ALWAY TOMORROW AND THINGS WILL BE BRIGHTER,
2006-07-14 19:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not happy..it is best to end things..for you will never be happy again..trust your heart..you should not feel bad for a soft heart...but don't live with a broken heart..
2006-07-14 19:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you sound like me LOL.... PPL pour their troubles on me all ther time, but I cant solve my own stuff..... Oh well. If u figure it out lemme know.
2006-07-14 19:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by microsvc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take control, be Strong, there are many ways to live but you can only live once.
2006-07-14 19:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by disamari13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋