2006-07-14 19:20:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No, in fact, my first time was not all everyone made it out to be. You need to be older and much more mature before you start considering things like this. Seriously, you do not want to do something at this age, because you will probably end up getting hurt. I still regret my first time. I was TOO young, and did not care enough for the guy I lost my virginity to. In fact, after it happened, he started telling people, and it got much further than I wanted it to. Take my advice, wait it out. I really do wish I would have waited. Think of how much more special it will be when you find the person you are going to marry. That would be the best way to lose it!! Be safe & Think A LOT before you make a huge decision like this!!
2006-07-14 19:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by °kels° 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that unsure you probably arn't quite ready yet. As to how it feels....sometimes its great sometimes its kinda blah. It usually hurts a bit the first time and sometimes hurts the first few times. Its really not the big hairy deal people on either side of this argument make it out to be.
The most importants thing is to remember are BE SAFE. If you are to embarassed to bring up condoms with your partner or he rolls his eyes and tries to convince you not to make him use one that right there shows a lack of maturity and somone who is NOT ready.
And also know that SEX does not = LOVE. Doing it will not make you love him or him love you or make him stay with you or anything else. If you are going to have sex do it for the joy of the experince. Any other motive can backfire and be really hurtfull.
Good Luck!
2006-07-14 19:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Vanillla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not i started at that age and regret it very much! And it is not a matter how it feels it is a matter of if you well still repect your self after and if the person you do it with will and at that age i promise it isn't worth it!!!!! but it is your body and up to you But always use protection no matter what!! and if i were you i'd talk to your parents about it they can be more understanding then you think!
2006-07-14 19:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a guy, having sex at 14 can screw you up emotionally. It becomes harder for a guy to form emotional attachments in adulthood if he has sex at a young age. If you are a girl it can screw you up physically. Not just with pregnancy or STDs either, girls under the age of 18 who have sex have a 50% greater chance of having cervical cancer.
2006-07-14 19:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by colorados_lost_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say no.
1.It is illegal in some states to have intercourse under the age of 16
2. It can't fell very good when your only 14. But your first time never feels good
3. You have your whole life to do this can't you wait 10 years (just putting numbers up)
4.DO what you feel is right. I like to say this alot. WHEN IN DOUBT DONT DO IT!
2006-07-14 19:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Elpbulldog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am trying to be preachy but DON'T do it yet i had low self esteem as a 14 yo and the 1st guy to show me attention got my ( u know what) i really regretted it later and it hurt like..... he-double hockey sticks. i was the 1st one in me class to do it and i thought it would be cool NOT they branded me a sl** . i was not i was just STUPID
so please just wait if u feel that u will lose a boy 4 not doing it SO u r only 13 u have a lot of time to find the 1 person that u wont look back later and say.. WHAT IN THE WORLD DID I DO THAT 4 ? i hope u make the right choice,,,,,good luck & be happy with u self . its like losing u baby teeth they came out when it was time 4 them 2 not be4
2006-07-14 19:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by meemeemee40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allthough your body might be developed and ready,emotionally your still very young,if you dont want to be messed up later,i would wait a few more years if i were you,and if you dont get the right person your first experance can be a bad one even painfull,dont just have sex for the sake of it.and dont forget about all the disease like HIV Aids and pregnancy your still to young to deal with all the out comes that could and do happen all the time,injoy your life first,then you will know when your ready,the very fact you felt you schould ask means your not ready.
2006-07-14 19:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by norman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is way too young it's definately NOT worth it. It's better to wait. You should also be sure you know your partner, there's too many things you can pick up & most of them have no symtoms so you don't even know that you have a disease. It's better to wait till you are more mature & aware of your body
2006-07-14 19:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sedona Sunrise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it not worth it! You should be having fun with friends at the mall and doing kid things. You should wait till your older. What would you do if you got pregnant (if your a guy, what would your gf do?) It could happen, that one time! Just because your friends are doing it, or talking about it, does'nt mean you should!
2006-07-14 19:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you are at least 16 or 17, and educate yourself on how to use protection. Then USE it!
And make sure it is with someone you like/love, not a flaky jerk who is just using you for sex. Then you will regret it.
2006-07-14 19:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by clorox.bleech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋