Okay so I destroyed the friendship I had with my best friend from High School (I'm 35 now). He met this chick online and they chatted for a few weeks, next thing I know she moves in. This Honey is like 320lbs. of hippie trash (long freakin unkempt hair and a mumu). My Bro is a software engineer, homeowner, car is paid for. I take her for a fat azz gold digger and when my wife and I meet her we both got a real bad vibe and we just didn't trust her. So I tell my buddy how we feel because of course he asks my opinion and being the good friend that I am I tell him the truth. He needs to kick freakzilla to the curb. Then he marries her (in secret) and I happen to miss the wedding reception (it was an accident). Needless to say after some back and forth he now refuses to acknowledge my existance for nearly 2 years.
I really miss my best friend... I miss him alot and I just wonder if I am a iSht.
2006-07-14 18:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ren Hoek 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just give it time. If things with the freek work out, send him a card saying you're happy you were wrong. If she takes him for a ride, be the first one to help him.
2006-07-14 19:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by dbelyew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I rekon that you should let your friend?ex friend be happy everyone needs a bit of freakzilla in there lives she is obviously giving him something worth sharing his so called gold mine with. I think deep down inside you are a bit possesive of your friend he is a big boy and can decide if this hippi chic wants his huge cock or his spare change let him make the mistake if he needs to no your not a isht probably just a good mate
2006-07-15 02:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by emsruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did anything wrong. You were honest - that's probably something he liked about being your friend. Since you miss him, try sending him a letter or email explaining how truly sorry you are that you missed the reception, and that you would like another chance to get to know his wife. Maybe he misses your friendship too, and was just hurt. just remember - you can only control yourself, not how he will react.
2006-07-15 02:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if I were you I would give him a call and eat crow if you really want his friendship back...who cares what she is like as long as your friend is happy.....Hey maybe she has lost weight.....if not don't worry about it just get your friend back....you are going to have to kiss a little but depending on how much you want your friend back...hell maybe he wont want to be your friend, but I highly doubt that. He prob. misses you as much as you miss him. Good luck...if you have been friends that long it will work out find......Hell my best friend slept with my x-husband we didn't talk for 2 and 1/2 years and now we made peace with each other and are fine now...so it can be done.
2006-07-15 02:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves her and they are happy isn't that what you would want for your "best friend"? Yes you were honest with him,but name calling will never go over well and it was hurtful.You should make the first move.Write him a letter.Tell him you miss your friend.Tell him you are sorry.That is what a real friend would do.Be happy for him and if it doesn't work out-be there for him.
2006-07-15 02:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by cmeand3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a decision.
You did nothing more than a true friend would do, answer his question honestly.
Life goes on
2006-07-15 02:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by G. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dbelyew has a good answer there.
2006-07-15 02:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by honey2bears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's a dumbassp
2006-07-15 02:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋