ok my parents are divorced and im stuck on who i should live with. they been divorced for about 4 or 5 yrs now and my mom got married again to some man i hate. even my grandparents and family hates him but my mom still loves him. my grandmother says she puts her new husband before me and that i should live wit my dad. but i dont want to live with my dad because he lives in kentucky and my mom lives in atlanta. and i dont want to leave my mom because i have a boyfriend in altlanta and i dont want to leave him. what should i do? well who should i live with?
2006-07-14 18:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should really live where you can have a better life. If you live with a parent who is mean to you it can cause problems you will remember your whole life. Trust me I know. My mother and I lived together after the divorce. She did not want me and I was in the way. She wanted to be with her boyfriend alone. My dad did not want me either. He was busy dating also. I could live with my aunt and uncle but it was so far. I had to drive 35 miles just to get to school. We can drive at 16 here. I lived with my mom. I had a room there. She was so emotionally abusive. I still do not get along with her. I would live with your dad if he will be kind to you. It is hard to understand now, but boyfriends should not determine what you do at a young age. You can email him and try to visit and you make meet someone new in Kentucky. Why don't you ask your dad if you can visit and see the school you would go to and see the room you would stay in. Ask if he has an friends with kids your age. Do you have any cousins there? Think about it. You might be able to get along better with your mom later. She shoule really put you 1st. Can you live with grandparents? Would that be a good place? Think of all your options. Moms get selfish and it is bad, but you cannot stop them. If you hate the husband do not live there it will get worse. It is hard to ignore I tried, but my mom just screamed in my face. Her man was too important. He wanted her to leave him alone sometimes and spend time with me, but she said she did not do things with me anymore. She was obsessed with him. They broke up and she still hates me. She is living with a woman now and still hates me. I am not saying it is the same. When she was with my dad she loved me and did things with me like art. Now she just hates me because I remind her of my dad.
2006-07-14 19:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on your grandparents for butting in on someone elses business.
Maybe you are jealous of the attention your mom gives her new husband? You should all get counseling. You need to feel loved and you mom needs to be happy in her new marriage.
Leave your bf out of this. If you need to move, move.
2006-07-14 19:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple.
leave your boyfriend out of it.
will you have a happy home with your dad?
or can you be more independent in Atlanta and let your mom enjoy her new relationship?
and how long until you can move out of home?
2006-07-14 19:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will live with your slimy mother but you should live with your Dad .
2006-07-14 19:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with who ever you feel more comfortable with
2006-07-14 19:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go with who ever u feel comfortable with.
2006-07-14 19:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would vote for dad.
2006-07-14 19:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋