if a man and a woman are maried and they never have sex should it be considered a problem?and husband and step

Question

daughter and step- father are always wallaring on each other are they any reason for concern?

Answer 1

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Are you insinuating that because the married couple don't have relations that the step child and the father are? Ewwwww....yeah, I would say that it is a problem.

Answer 2

how long have you been married sometimes when you been married for a long time the love is not the sam I read a study today about that single people so single people won't feel bad being single that it is positve thing to be single sometimes. Talking your wife or husband aboutit depends if you can deal with no skin contact at all. I think it is only human to want to be loved and held. If the step daughter or the daughter alone should not be engaging anything at all. There might something wrong with your husband if he is trying to get with the daughter thats wrong YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND AND DAUGHTER SEPERATELY .

Answer 3

Yeah, I am thinking that there is a problem. If I was the mother I would have a strait up talk with my daughter, if she is a minor I would send her for counseling, and the man needs to leave the house if there is any suspisions until everything gets straightened out. Was there sex before the marriage. I have a friend that has been married to his wife for almost 2 years, they have only lived together for about 2 months out of those 2 years and they haven't had sex since marriage, but had plenty of it before marriage. i told him he should get a divorce.

Answer 4

Absolutely it's a problem. What do you mean whallering, is there any innapproriate touching going on. Sex is a big part of a healthy marriage especially if there is a lack there of. And how old is step-daughter?

Answer 5

WELL
If you read the book
His Needs, her Needs, By Willard harley jr.

one of mens ( 5 basic needs ) includes sexual relationship.
( this does not mean it's healthy or even safe but it is a (BASIC) need for just about every man. If he is not having sex with you. then who is he with?

Also let me ask you this What are you doing to turn your man off you?
It takes 2 people to have a relationship. if your not interested men are simple we just find some one else. women respond the same way with appreciation.

Answer 6

if a man and woman is married and don't have sex..hum..did they do it to get a green card? Or does the husband has a thing for his step daughter.....food for thought

Answer 7

well i would say so and further more he is the man so he should not have to listen to a bratty child ordering him around. how ever he should respect her because it is not her fault that you are not wit her father any more and she is forced to live with you who married another man when she did nothing to deserve ill treatment from a step father.

Answer 8

Wallering??? What the hell does that mean??? Are you saying that the husband is being affectionate towards his stepdaughter?? If so, then this is a dysfunctional situation especially if she is a young girl. I just don't even want to know!

Answer 9

that relationship is health and also not healthy.
sex is part of the union of marrage, mabe they waiting or they have ther own plane when they went to have sex. in this suatution the couple are the only solution to ther problem if that is a proble for them.

Answer 10

It's only a problem if they man and woman think it's a problem.

***note...what in the world is "always wallaring on each other" mean?

Answer 11

Well, it's not necessarily a problem unless one or both partners feels unfulfilled b/c of the lack of sex. As for the fighting...that's not good. It puts a strain on EVERYBODY.