am i crazy or dose enyone else enjoy being tied up slapped bitten and roughed up when having sex?

Answer 1

No you aren't crazy. There are all kinds of fetishes out there. If that's what you like then enjoy it.

Answer 2

According to the general concensus of psychologists, you are not crazy. The better term for it is kinky, and there are lots of others out there that share your same desires.

What you are describing are two aspects of BDSM. The first aspect is bondage and discipline, where one is tied up by another. In your case you are describing the role of a bottom, who is the one tied up. In many people, pleasure is derived from either being the bottom or the top (the binder). Indeed, studies suggest that one-half of all males find bondage to be interesting even if they never engage in it, and a large portion of women as well.

The roughed up part tends to go beyond the discipline aspect of BDSM. Instead, this is more along the lines of sadism and masochism, in which you are describing the role of the masochist. It may sound strange, but pain applied in certain areas of the body (the non-fragile parts usually) can actually be pleasurable as the brain responds to this with the production of endorphins. These act on the pleasure centres of the brain, causing a sense of euphoria. Combined with the natural euphoria of sex, this can really be a really intense and pleasurable experience.

I can safely say that you are not alone in this. Others, perhaps even around where you live, are really into this. If you live in or near a sizeable city, there may be an organised group for people with your interests that you could locate with a web search, such you wish to pursue that course.

Finally, I provide the advice of doing what feels good for you as long as no harm comes from it.

Answer 3

Some people like it. But then you can find people who like all sorts of stuff.

Personally I can go for the tied up thing (either way around), but slapping/biting/roughing up is right out.

Answer 4

Tied up and bitten a little . Not slapped .haha are you a scorpio?

Answer 5

I don't think that your crazy at all. I myself sometimes enjoy that. You need some spicing up in your life sometimes or your relationship may go dead.

Answer 6

Sounds like you met a cannibal. Dont get a flesh wound!

Answer 7

It depends if your over 18 or not

Answer 8

What U do is a widely used way of expressing sex. Some with extremities are called Saddistic Pleasures. If it is confined in slapping or hitting only, Its called spanking.

Here is the excerpt from Wikipedia

Spanking, by today's definition, consists of striking the buttocks repeatedly, usually as a corporal punishment, with either an open hand or various implements including a cane, a belt or strap, various types of whips (see flagellation) such as martinet and tawse (traditional in France resp. Scotland), switch or other form of rod, paddle (the U.S. favorite), some curious devices as produced for U.S. masonic lodge initiations (such as the electric so-called spanker, and trickster 'paddling machines'), or still various (e.g. 'household') objects designed for other purposes (grabbing for an improvised implement can occur in any punitive context except the most formal punishments when it is strictly prescribed), such as a slipper (common in Commonwealth domestic discipline, also said when other footwear is used), a wooden spoon, a bath brush, wooden ruler or the hairbrush.

In the U.S. and Canada, all posterior discipline is usually known as spanking. In Britain and many Commonwealth countries smacking or whacking is used as the general term; with spanking usually referring to bare hand discipline (as opposed to implement-specific forms such as caning, birching and slippering), though the American generalisation became acceptable recently, and to erotic spanking. However when the buttocks suffer an onslaught from footwear on the foot (not wielded by hand) the term booting is commonly used instead of spanking.
There are many alternative terms, often linked with an implement (such as belting, caning, whipping), but also sometimes used more generally (such as thrashing, dressing-down (though this often refers to the lecture that precedes the actual spanking and perhaps refers to the undressing of the buttocks that often occurs during the lecture) , whacking, wupping or whupping) or using terms for a stroke (usually in the plural), such as blow, swat (hence swatting), lick (hence licking) and less common ones including onomatopoeias such as "pop". There are still other terms for hits (e.g. blow, stroke, cut refer to the effect), sometimes rather describing the physical effect, such as cut, stripe - nearly all those terms can of course also apply to beatings elsewhere on the body, and even though a term as hiding or tanning suggests administering on the bare these can also be used more generally. Next there are descriptive terms for spanking using a synonym of buttocks and a generic term for (corporal) punishment, such as posterior chastisement, stern discipline, sometimes specifying the degree of nakedness of the spankee, as in panties-down, or bare-bottom punishment.

It is striking how the (mainly informal) terminology is usually determined by the punisher's point of view, with terms such as lesson, medicine, ordeal, therapy, (woodshed) treatment), even helping, sometimes adding -in se unnecessary- adjectives such as firm, (jolly) good, healthy, sound, well-deserved, even (long) overdue; if the spankee is taken notice of, then as helplessly suffering the painful effects, as in: blistering, grilling, roasting, humbling.
Several languages exclusively use words that directly indicate the buttocks as the anatomical target zone, either plainly as the French fessée (from fesse 'buttock') or somewhat ironic, such as the Dutch billenkoek (buttocks + cake); a similar word pun in English is posterior alignment.
Sometimes there is another specific term for a spanking on the seat of the trousers, as the Dutch pak voor de broek ('load (of swats) for -i.e. on- the pantaloons'). On the other hand expressions for a bad beating -not necessarily only for a spanking- can precisely refer to the preliminary baring, as 'a dressing down' and the Dutch verbs afranselen ('take off the (back) pack') and aftuigen ('unharnass', i.e. divest).
Similarly there can be analogous words for spankers, as the Dutch bilslager ('buttock beater') and the French (Frère) Fesseur ('(brother) spanker'), both referring to a cleric, especially in the Jesuit order, specifically charged with the professional administration of spankings on the (typically bared) buttocks of naughty pupils in reputedly strict Catholic schools; the clergy seems to have had a real reputation as bodily chastizers (there was a tradition of 'mortification' of the flesh, including self-flagellation, not only as penance), for in Paris's St. Lazaire prison the rod was administered on the bare buttocks of criminals by a member of the Lazarist order referred to as the Père fouettard ('whipping father') as allegedly happened to the writer Beaumarchais

Answer 9

usually somthing happened in your childhood to ignite sexuall feelings towards sadism and bondage, my father would attack my mother so I thought sex was supposed to be violent to be good, till I got the **** beat out of me

Answer 10

You aren't crazy...although you may be a bit masochistic. be careful out there! lol.