For some bizarre reason,I'm always ignored.Especially when I try to talk someone always butts in.Even with yahoo answes people ignore my questions.All my friends from my old schools forgot all about me.I'm really not some attention hog who is just over-sensetive.I wear bright enough colored shirts.Sometimes it really feels as if I'm invisible.How do I get more attention?
2006-07-14 16:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Kit Untz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
More outgoing? My sun sign's a leo! Can't get even more outgoing that that......My moon sign's a cancer though.
2006-07-14 18:26:43 · update #1
Maybe you have the wrong kind of friends b/c if they forget all about you then they are no friend; all they want is attention, you know those self-centered freaks. To make you feel better, if you want, you can e-mail me at tweety_grl6@yahoo.com.
2006-07-14 16:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It start with the mind first, if u think less of yourself so will other. Lets change our way of thinking first. Okay do u go out. how about at least one good friend of family member that u are close with. Go out to the mall or movies. Then what kind of kind of clothes u wear. Are the plain, dull. Even if u don't have a lot u still can spice things up. Do u wear lip gloss or eyeshadow. How is your hair. And let me tell u from experience. If you is having a bad hair day it can bring your appearance down also. Maybe a nice hair cut or some highlights around your face. Try some of these and maybe things may start looking up.
2006-07-15 00:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the key to getting attention is not to be shy just let ur self loose dont let any1 stop u 4m doing or saying what u feel P.S cause drama people like that 4 some reason
2006-07-15 00:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by sweet pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i really understand where your coming from im the same way ok what you need 2 do is sit down and think about the stuff u like and then put your self out there so all the people who have the same interests can see u it will be hard at 1st but then if this works then u will have plenty of friends if u want e-mail me from what im seeing alot of people care about u and how u feel and i do to shloobe69@yahoo.com
2006-07-15 00:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by headbanger x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a friend be a friend.
It sounds like you move around a lot.
It will take some time to make new friends but it will happen. Trying too hard scares people away.
2006-07-15 00:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl I'm so so sorry to here this and i no how you feel so if you need some one to keep you busy talking I'M me I'm 18 funny and I'm a christian that love to help other in need. I'm here for you. so if you would like we Will talk about this and try to come up with something to get every one to listen to you, so you the best and god bless.
2006-07-14 23:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Thats what I do. If your friends dont notice you or they dont act like your even there then ditch them (cause the way you make it sound they wont miss you) and be who you are and see who comes to you. See me. Im just wild and crazy. So people always notice me. Even when im trying to be sneeky. So anyways, just be you and someone will find you. =]
2006-07-14 23:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by sydneyypaigem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, Kath. What you are perceiving is not reality. It just seems like you are ignored. And, if you are truly getting ignored, get some new pals.
2006-07-14 23:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by I-Eat-Paint-Chips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand out more in a crowd, with your personality. Be more assertive and out going. Make your presence known.
2006-07-14 23:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be bold do not let other interupt if they do make them stand out by saying excuse me in a firm and calm voice but i was speaking do you mind if i finnished,ill never ignore you, but be bold in a classy way not sleazy,bad comes from being sleazy
2006-07-15 00:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋