why do teens rebel against parents?

Question

reasons, causes...

Answer 1

It not only happens in humans, but, in the animal kingdom, as well.

It is part of the growing up process, & completely normal.
It is only when 'it' begins to get out of control, that, it can become a major problem.

Answer 2

Rebellion is a necessary developmental stage for the transition into adulthood. Young adults (teens) eventually come to a point (often in late puberty) when their logical and conceptual thinking is fully developed, and their bodies are able to create children of their own. At this point, they begin to actually feel like an adult, so they naturally want to take on a more active role in controlling aspects of their own life. They feel the need to express their feelings more, assert their position on topics important to them, and pursue goals which they are passionate about. Perhaps the gratest mistake parents can make when their teenager is rebelling is to "tighten the reins" or try to otherwise curb the rebellion by excercising even more control. The proper, although more difficult, avenue for parents is to begin to treat their teen more like an adult. Sometimes this means swallowing a little pride and giving up some control...which can be difficult on one's ego. However, if you think about it, isn't that sometimes the case when you deal with other adults? It is possible to be a parent and not treat your teen like a child. All it takes is a lot of patience, insight, and maturity from the parents. During this stage, the functions of the parent expands from decision maker and disciplinarian to guide, mentor, and positive adult role-model. And the latter of these functions often help the teen to eventually become a well-adjusted adult.

Answer 3

Cause they wanna be their own person. And make mistakes and decisions for themselves. the problem is that parents usually have to fix the mistakes made by their teens. So all u can do is wait until they are 18 or let them act grown now and do and take care of everything themselves. then they will appreciate the things u do for them. Trust me i know cause it has happened to me w/ my parents.

Answer 4

I would say most common reason is because they are at that awkward stage between becoming an adult and being a child.
They most likely want to feel in control of their own life and feel like they are an independent individual.

Answer 5

They want a sense of independence from authority. Unfortunately, some parents aren't assertive enough to suppress their kids' rebellion when it gets out of hand.

Answer 6

When children become a certain age, depending on how they were raised, they think they have learned enough to make their own decisions. Sometimes good and sometimes bad.

Answer 7

I dont know. I guess because the older you get, the more you think you know better. Maybe because teens think that they know what they can handle and what is best.

Answer 8

They want to be noticed, they want to be different, whatever there's a million reasons and causes.

Answer 9

Because teens always think they're right!
Been there, done that.