Because i love him even when I heard his last message that broke my heart. And now we go to summer school together and he has'nt even looked at me are from what I can see with 2 glances. And on his last message he said I never have to worry about hearing are talking to him. And now I'm hurt because I believe he's gone for good and though he broke my heart I still care and love him. And I'm playing it out good. I glance and that's all I don't mention it at all to my friends I go home like everythings fine and it dosen't phase me what he said, When he really hurt me and I love him.And maybe he was wrong to call me a B and say he wanted my friend and not me and he liked me but he liked my friend more but I still love him and that makes me so sad because Ican't feel mad. And it's been sine June 25th since we last talked and he begged me to turn on my phone and left 1 message after 27 saying all thoughs things that I think he knew would hurt me. But will he talk to me again are is it over?
2006-07-14 16:50:39 · 16 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had stopped answering the phone because i told him that he he was coming back hurting me and throwing that he was doing better than me up in my face and he said he did it and he'd do it again I asked if he was serious and he said yes he heard what I said so I cut off my phone. And he left 24 messages telling me to cut it back on all more than 20 minutes then his last3 messages said F me and he liked my friend and that's the only reason he got with me. He was angry but I was hurt and finally he left the lat message saying B and now we go to summer school togther and I saw him twice from a distance but he has'nt talked and dosen't look fased so I'm doing the same. but inside I'm broke and I wish he'd say something because it was'nt just like I love him but now I don't know. And we probably never talk again and when he left almost 9 months ago I did'nt get over him because I knew he'd come back yet now. I believe we'll never talk again and we are'nt even friends. So what do I do??!!
2006-07-14 17:03:38 · update #1
girl,
when you are 20 years old, you won't even remember this guys name.
2006-07-14 16:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve so much better than someone who is going to play mind games, call you names and put you down.......It sounds like you would be way better off without him no matter how bad it hurts and I know it hurts very bad and that you must ache inside, but God didnt make you to be stepped on, called names, treatly badly and made to cry.......that isnt how he wants things for you......He has great plans for you and that includes one day down the road a man that will love and respect you as you deserve to be.
You need to just let go of this guy and get on with your life......I know its hard and I know you dont want to, but believe me in the end when its said and done you will have made the best decision you could ever make for yourself and the hurt will subside if you just give yourself time to heal.
I know I had to walk away from my exboyfriend because all I did was cry and feel badly toward the end of our relationship......he didnt treat me very well and I just couldnt take the verbal or emotional junk anymore, so i chose to end the relationship and it was the best thing I ever did for myself....yes, it took time to heal, but Praise God im here today and doing good.
You too will be okay just give yourself time and know that you are worth so much more than that guy ever gave or offered you......any guy who calls you names and says things to hurt isnt worth having around.
Good luck to you. I'll say a prayer for you.
2006-07-15 00:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by wendyceline2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k girlie! I've been where you are MANY times! I know it hurts, and I know you feel like there will never be anyone else, but I promise there will be! I know people will tell you to just get over it, but it will take time. focus on yourself! do something just for you...whatever you really enjoy doing, go out and do it! spend time with friends and family, read a good book, or anything else you really enjoy doing. even keep a journal if you need to get your thoughts out. it won't make it better to try to talk to him...especially if you think he's saying things just to be mean to you. he will only drag you down! you're too young to let a guy tear you down. take care of yourself, and show him that he doesn't have that much power over you. I feel for you, I really do, but I know from experience that it will hurt less with time, and you will find someone who cares about you for you! hang in there kiddo!
2006-07-15 00:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by nicolekirk99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he hurt you, but you need to think about what he said to you. First of all he doesn't respect you if he calls you a B. 2ND to tell you he wants your friend what a jerk!!!!. You need to think is this really the type of guy you want. A guy that you can't trust around your girlfriends and that degrades you by calling you names. That's not love, forget about this jerk, find you another
guy. After he told you he wanted your friend and call you a B why would you want to talk to him!!! Men are just like buses, there is always another around the corner. Hold your head up its going to be OK.
2006-07-15 00:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still in school so I would have to say a school crush. If he dont want you then he just missed out on a good thing.Raise you head high and be a women cause he is the boy. And the next time you talk just act like you hae no ideal why he woudl talk to you.
2006-07-14 23:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if you call him he will talk to you again, it sounds also like you really hurt him too. Why are you guys being so mean to each other??? It was mean for you to not answer after 27 times , come on. I think you need to be more mature and stop being a princess, the world doesn't revolve around you. Call him.
2006-07-14 23:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be mean but you need to get over him and get a life.If he told me he only got with me to get with my friend it wouldn't take me long to say goodbye.He is not the only one out there.Go out and take a look around and see for yourself.
2006-07-15 00:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE BROKE YOUR HEART, SAYS HE LIKES YOUR FRIEND MORE THAT HE LIKES YOU. THAT ALONE TELLS YOU THAT HE DOESN'T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU OR YOUR FEELINGS. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE HURTING, BUT YOU AS A YOUNG WOMAN MUST LEARN RIGHT NOW HOW TO BE STRONG AGAINST UNEDUCATED, IMMATURED BOYS LIKE HIM. SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND DON'T ALLLOW HIS EVIL- MINDED SELF TO ENTER INTO YOUR WORLD.
2006-07-15 00:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,
if he called you a B then you deserve better and what is up with him saying he wants your friend. that is so gross. You will find someone better. just open your eyes. whatever you do don't go back to him.
2006-07-14 23:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's over. The hurt will go away in time, just hang in there.
2006-07-14 23:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get over it, he's not worth the time and energy. Life is too short enjoy someone who wants you too.
2006-07-14 23:53:53 · answer #11 · answered by tlcnc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋