my boy friend is starting to be mean to me he wants me to feel like i need him he says the meanest things and he will treat me so bad but then he will be like baby u love i am sorry but how many sorrys can i take i love him so much and i would do any thing for him and i always give in i dont want to break up with him i just want to teach him a lesspn to show that i dont need him i want him???????
2006-07-14 16:30:34 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i gave all my friends up for him i do any thing to make it work
2006-07-14 16:39:46 · update #1
He sounds mean, I would dumb him but that is me. Start to take care of yourself more, don't let him do everything for you.
2006-07-14 16:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, why do you need to teach him a lesson? That's foolish.
One thing I have learned in relationships is that there is no limit to the amounts of "sorrys" one should accept. As long is the person you are with is human, chances are they will have to be making things up to you for the rest of your lives. The issue is not the amount of times they say it, but whether or not they are trying to change their ways. When you involve yourself with someone, you get the good and the bad. Relationships are about the good and bad in each other and still standing by each other. no relationship is perfect so all you can do for now is watch whether or not he is willing to change this issue for you because it really hurts you. He will if he really loves you.
2006-07-15 00:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by shaunese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one I would have to tell him sorry is just a word with 4 consants and a vowel. And nothing more then that. TO truely be sorry then you have to show it and that words dont mean much with out action behind them. Let him see what it would be like if you were not around just once cause if he is that way now and dont get it soon he never will. By the way love is a 4 letter word with 2 consents and 2 vowels with out action it dont me anything eather.
2006-07-14 23:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question, that unfortunately only you can answer..everyone has their own limits and boundaries...
Here's the good news, you guys will probably end up breaking up in the future, so you don't have to do anything right now if you are really not ready...just keep taking the "I'm sorry" until you can't take it anymore....
Sure you will have wasted valuable time in your life, but hey..you really love him and will do anything for him....
2006-07-14 23:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start spending time with ur friends. dont pay him much attention and just call him boyfriend by name. I mean to say hang around with ur female friends. stay away from guys or u will hurt him. he is stupid. I m sure he wats to make u laugh but he is ot good at at. in result what coes out of his mouth is very rude. dont mind him. just make him feel unwanted for few weeks, or if u cat do that then tell him straight up that I liked u when u were decent.
2006-07-14 23:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sheeno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all do this honey!! The idiots anyway. Why do you say that you don't want to break up? You are telling him that it's OK to treat you like ****! All he has to do is throw the "love" word around and you forgive him. Stop it! You deserve better! Leave the prick. Prove to him and yourself that you will not take **** from anyone!!
2006-07-14 23:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you will get millions lf sorry's, but if you love like you say you do. You will accept them and forgive him. And always remember he is just a man. Men are little boys in big bodies.
2006-07-14 23:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by carla holt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you, he doesn't deserve you. Pimps say "I love you" to their hoes, but it is just to get them to stay. Don't stay with him. You are too good for him. If he doesn't treat you like you are the most special thing to him 100% of the time, ditch the jerk. He is an S.O.B.
2006-07-14 23:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by duckgirl566 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run , don't walk away. You don't need a mean boyfriend. This should be a lesson to you, never dump your friends for a guy.
2006-07-14 23:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just talk to him tell him if he is mean to you anymore you will leave him and tell him if he was truly sorry he wouldn't treat you like garbage and then apologize for it. Tell him that you care for him but you need to have some indpendence and get out and enjoy yourself you derserve it.
2006-07-14 23:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋