So we are bothe doing the same summer show and he finds out a like a guy (not in show) so he calls him a "dud" and says "there are other guys". He tells me he talked to him when he didn't. He's flirty and sexy with tight hugs and lying close to me on break. He asks me "who is better looking, me or the guy you like?".
Then he starts to ignore wme. I'm "mysterious " to begin with and I never gush over him like the other girls do. I do have a loud mouth so he can't NOt be hearing me call his name or saying him. He starts to flirt more with other girls to see if I'm watching. And tonight? He'd come over to whoever I was with (girls) and flirt with them, ignoring me. I can't flirt with a guy that goes deaf when I talk. So what the hell is up?
WHAT THE HELL IS HE DOING?!?!?
2006-07-14 15:21:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have no idea, but would love to!!!
My best guess would be that he liked you, but since you refused to play into his game-ie, you didn't fall all over him like the other girls did, he is now punishing you or something by shutting you out. Maybe he is a jerk and genuinely is pissed at you for not wanting him, who knows. Or maybe he is just trying to get your attention?
You should ask HIM, lol...then come and tell us tho! :)
2006-07-14 15:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He found out you like someone else, and he had to compete. He views himself as the alpha male, and all women are his if he chooses. Right now, he's probably deluding himself that you really want him, you're just scared to admit it.
You wanna do society a favor? PUT HIM IN HIS PLACE! If you can kick this guy to the curb and make it painfully obvious (the more painfull, the better) that he's being an adolescent freak that you wouldn't touch with a ten-foot pole, you will be doing men (and women) everywhere a service. And then you can start on the other 2,000,000 men that are just like him.
2006-07-14 15:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been a few years for me. But you think that he sees the world like you!!! An error. This guy sounds young - at his age I liked girls but as friends!!! You might want more than he is ready to give you!!! Guys know fear when young. He might be testing the waters to see if you are interested. Stroke his ego and see if he responds. If he does not... move on!!! No one needs the drama!!!!
Always remember - you can never know another persons heart unless thye are able to open to you. Some people never learn. Find a nice guy, who can express himself, and develop a relationship if that is what you want!!!!
2006-07-14 16:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by BeenAround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games. What are you in it for? Sounds like he is in it to win, meaning to break your heart, so you will cry to him and get angry with him and then accept his advances when he then puts the moves on you. If you haven't slept with him than DON'T. Sounds like he would only see it as victory for him. If you are a player then you know only to hate the game. If you are not a player then deny him and he will learn your strength and you will watch him self destruct, perhaps. You need to focus on guys who will treat you with respect. Sounds like he doesn't know the proper way to treat you and needs a lesson on how. Find someone who will treat you right and let that someone teach him a lesson.
2006-07-14 15:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being an ***. Go back to ignoring him, and he will realize that he has to chase you and that he can't take you for granted.
I advise everyone to read the book called "The Rules". It is a great book on relationships and not getting too clingy with men.
2006-07-14 15:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Abby ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 33 and the one thing I can tell you that really works on men is to ignore them....It drives them NUTS. If he talked to you talk and be sweet and a little flirty. Then go right back to ignoring him. He'll come around then.
2006-07-14 15:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got jealous when he found out you like someone else and all his flirtation didnt work on u.Now he is trying to save face by acting like he's not interested in u now,like,"Oh I didnt like u anyway".He also wantsto see if he can make u jealous by flirting right in front of u.He'schildish!Keep cool and pay him no mind.
2006-07-14 15:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing the field. Your just part of the game.
2006-07-14 15:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make you jealous. Ignore him from now on and he will be crawling up walls to get your attention.
2006-07-14 15:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bonapartess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋