I love my family..I love them alot but everytime I look at one of my family members I feel hate and I feel like I could punch them in the face.I love her.When i think about her i'm happy but then i'll turn and see her and all these bad feelings start happening inside.I don't let any of them out but it bugs me that i love her but feel hate toward at the same time.
2006-07-14 15:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by Angelina T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Usually anger stems from your feeling undervalued or underappreciated. Do you feel that your family member doesn't respect you or treat you with love? Regardless of how someone else treats you, you are responsible for your reaction to them. You can't change other people. You can only change how much you expose yourself to someone toxic.
2006-07-14 15:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a very powerful word and the fact that you say you love her leads me to believe that you don't HATE her... you might resent her for some reason, not like some things that she does... you can dislike things people do and love them at the same time... you need to figure out what it is about this person that makes you feel this way and then find a way to change it... once you figure that out then talk to this person...not argue, but talk.. it is all up to you... Good Luck!!!
2006-07-14 22:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might have some repressed feelings or resentment. The best thing you could do for yourself and your family member(s) is to get some mental health counseling and find out why you feel this way.
2006-07-14 22:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many of us hide our true feelings because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what theywould have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
2006-07-14 22:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you obviously have some major anger issues going on. The only person you have control over is yourself.
You HAVE to get rid of the hate and anger. It will eat you up inside and make you miserable.
If you can't figure out what makes you so mad, please talk to someone about it before it goes too far.
2006-07-14 22:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by BigBadBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she hurt you ? i think she did
2006-07-14 22:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOS HER?????????????????
2006-07-14 22:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ally13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋