I have plenty of friends...but I have an obsession with.....?

Question

people who don't have many or any friends. What is that like? I would imagine it sucks. Do you have any specific reasons why your in such a situation (maybe you move a lot, or moved once, fall-outs, shy) Cuz in high school any kids I went to school with that didnt have any friends i felt terrible for them. I had a friend who wasnt a very nice person, which is why I dont interact with him anymore, but he used to always complain that I was his only friend. Being lonely and constantly depressed creeps me out, and I just wanted to know if there are any people like that out there. To tell you the truth I think that stuff is pretty common, more common than people think, and that's unfortunate because when it comes down to it, theres a group of people for everyone out there being wasted.

Answer 1

You know if you think about it we (human beings) are so different and unique that it isn't strange that some of us are surrounded by friends where others have just one or two...think about...We draw certain people toward us..we repel others..it would be a different world if we all thought the same, shared the same likes and tastes..Have you heard that you "can never have enough friends." I say YES you can..friendship is a relationship that like any relationship takes work..I think we can say we place friends in different categories..close, longtime in our youth that we have since lost touch with..certain things draw friendship and makes it long lasting where changes in our lives put friendship to a test or we loose touch in what was something we shared for a while..I can say this without hesitation...you learn and grow from friends..some touch your heart deeply..others are here then gone..but we remember what they meant to us...