What can I do to set my priorities straight. I'm in love but this is my last chance to get it on, I'm still cute but getting up there. Anybody in my shoes has gat to know what I am talking about?
2006-07-14 14:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by Blah Blah Blah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know where you are.
I already went through it. Yes the 7yr itch is very real. I left. Sorry . Im the one who walked out because I could not take it anymore. But we got back together because that is how true love is.
If you are in love, does the guy love you? is he faithful to you? do you both have things in common? One of the killers in a marriage is "different likings" opposites do not stick together well. At first they may attract but in the end its rather tough to keep up with all different from how one is.
If you have a decent relation with the one you are in love with, marry him if that's in the view.
There is not much out there that one can say the grass is greener. Its the same everywehre or worse in some countries.
Your priorities? Ok, do you want to have a family? well starts by getting married.
Do you want to have a family and a job outside the home too? have you talked to him about it?
Money? is that a priority fo ryou and him?
Insurance? Savings shoulod be a definite priority.
As for the relation, priority? YOu have to decide that I think.
YOu know more than we do.
Good luck.
2006-07-14 14:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The 7 year itch has progressed to the 1 year itch. I have been(from what I'm told) still very attractive, and have kids wanting to take me out. But so what! I mean I'm glad I am still on the "wanted" list I could post a picture of my real self here, and other sites and get plenty of response....You say...I'm in love but.... But what? Get it on. Haven't you ever heard the expression...your fantasy is best or better than the real thing...? As a Hair Dresser if I had a dime for every time I heard a guy say that,(fantasy), is better. I'd be filthy rich. Learn vicariously and DON'T SCRATCH. You'll probably Be sorry you did.
2006-07-14 21:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "seven year itch" refers to marriage. Sometimes when men and women have been married a long time and didn't get a chance to "sow their wild oats" they begin to wonder if they are missing something in life. It is usually between seven and ten years that men as well as women might go looking beyond the confines of their marriage for a relationship.
2006-07-14 21:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 7 year itch is also called divorce. Trust me, i know.
2006-07-14 21:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Flit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an old wives tale. I get the feeling I'm in the same shoes.........
OH NO!!!!
2006-07-14 21:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking to "get it on" one last time, then you might need to rethink your "love" for this guy. if he was doin things right, you wouldnt be thinking about someone else
2006-07-14 21:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by cooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, so you better get your self a big container of talcum powder
2006-07-14 21:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by damiensam2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you wont get it on anymore after this???
2006-07-14 21:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋