P0rn if they get plenty of sex at home?
2006-07-14 13:53:57 · 35 answers · asked by HPEmomofone 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband get plenty of sex at home!
2006-07-14 14:10:21 · update #1
They don't always. Sit down and talk about it.
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Good luck
2006-07-14 13:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pornography reacts differently in the brain than healthy sex by inducing endogenous opiates, or opium-like substances produced by the brain that can be highly-addictive. It can be devastating for a woman when her mate prefers the company of pictures, but it is somewhat understandable when you realize that the images themselves are not the actual cause of the addictive behavior.
It has been said that if these opiates could ever be synthesized, there would be an unstoppable wave of addiction surpassing any man-made substance.
2006-07-14 14:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They DON'T need porn, especially if the sex between the two of you is exciting for BOTH of you! If there are issues, there is a possibility that the man wants to do things (fantisies) that he hasn't talked to his wife about! If this is the case, invite him to dinner, wear something you know he finds sexy on you. Once there, stay positive and talk about fun, sexy things that the two of you have done or things that you BOTH WANT to do!
Some men feel that their wives can't do the things that they see on porn! They don't give their ladies a chance to show them that they can do ANYTHING! If both of you can talk to each other and be honest and open with each other, he has no need to look at porn! I know this for a fact because my wife is hotter than anything I could ever see on porn!
Good luck
2006-07-14 14:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many men need porn in their happy lives, as there are women who keep A Little friend in their bedside stand. There should be no shame in that. It's being able to be honest & combine those pleasures that would make for better sex at home!
2006-07-14 14:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem may be plenty of sex, haven't you ever wanted to please your partner even when you weren't in the mood. I promise porn will get you in the mood, if you're a guy. Only thing is, guys have to you know.....get up, and that's tough if you're not in the mood. Porn helps a lot! So, my arguement is he's thinking of you and you should forget about him watching porn.
P. S. tell your guy I want my $50, just kidding
2006-07-14 16:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a biological difference between males and females. Men are visually stimulated, men are visually oriented. Its not bad, its just a difference between the sexes. And its not a universal truth, either, you can find exceptions both ways, but its true as a general rule.
2006-07-14 13:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think something along the lines of wanting what they can't have. It is a common human desire to crave what is past our reach. It isn't about the sex, or quality of sex. I suppose some men, and women just like to extend their views to new things, and maybe it keeps them excited.
2006-07-14 13:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Josh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is entertaining and exhillerating for men to look at porn and dream about the women they could have married and the exhillerating part is knowing that they could get caught. Unless you notice a change in your sex life with him i wouldnt worry about it
2006-07-14 13:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't NEED it and though they love to tell themselves that so they feel better about looking at the crap, it's always a case of them being insecure bored little babies who can't control their sexual urges and like to degrade woman. And they have a thousand excuses for it, but they are all crap. The whole porn industry thrives off of insecurity and weakness. What a lovely business.
2006-07-14 14:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by hideemosquito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is a form of entertainment...men are not the only ones who look at porn. Women do too. Sometimes a GOOD porn movie can be a prelude to sex.
2006-07-14 13:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋