I have re-opened my case and i need to know if father comes by for his visitation and he hasnt been following court order do i have to let our daughter go?what if he brings the police to my house?
2006-07-14 13:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by jenn b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ur a vengeful and vindictive biitch, using his daughter as weapon like that.
You aren't looking out for the bets interests of his father.
A father is equal to a mother and should have equal rights/custody to raise a child.
No wonder so many kids are growing up fuccked up because the fathers are being treated like dirt by the Feminazi family court system and the selfish mothers.
Fathers have rights too. They have Equal rights to raise their kids and this is being denied in current day America which claims to be a just and civilized society.
No civilized society treates fathers that way.
2006-07-14 13:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you will have to wait for the order to be modified by the courts. The only exception is if your child is in physical danger as a result of his not following the court order. If your child is being abused or harmed, you will have to file a police report. In that case, you would be justified in not allowing him access to your child. If he is keeping her a half an hour too long or something like that, you will have to wait to appeal to a judge and have the order redefined and modified.
2006-07-14 14:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the court can deny him visitation. You can go back and get a temporary injunction or temporary change pending the case, but if you just stop letting him have visitation..you'll be in violation of the order. Now, if he's doing something that endangers the child, you need to get your behind in front of a judge ASAP..or sooner.
2006-07-14 13:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you attorney right away. Do ANYTHING to protect the child. If it's just that he didn't follow the letter of the law in setting time or some such "small" thing, you'll likely look small-minded. Protect the child at all costs but trying to punish the father won't do you, the child, or the father any good at all.
2006-07-14 13:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't following the court orders then he's already breaking the law so I would let the police or your case worker know when he's breaking the court order.
2006-07-14 13:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you have to follow the orders of the court but you can bring him back to court and let them know that he is not following the orders and let the lawyers and judge decide what to do
2006-07-14 14:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and if you refuse to let her go, he can have you thrown in jail for indirect civil contempt of court.
Don't play games with your ex. He will be favorable in the eyes of a family judge and frankley, the judge don't care what your excuses are. He wants what is best for your child and sees so many shinnanigans in his court room he loses his patience and will not hesitate to lock your *** up until you have learned your lesson.
2006-07-14 14:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends how petty you are being when you say "not following court order during visitation" are the kids at risk of any harm that they wouldn't be at risk of under your supervision? if the kids are at risk then its worth going back to court, but if your just being petty and there is no risk of harm to the kids why put yourself and the kids through another court battle???????
2006-07-14 14:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you need proof of his violations- document everything and go to best buy and get a voice recorder and record phone calls with him. get a camera that prints the date on the picture and take pics. if you can prove he is not doing what he is supposed to do take him back to court and change the order to supervised if you need to. other than that im pretty sure you have to let him take her and if he calls the cops talk to them but they might make you let her go.
if he comes over on days that are not his i wouldnt let him take her and you can show the police your order that its not his day.
dont let him get the idea that its ok to just show up whenever he feels like it. my ex has tried that and ive told him no and refused to back down, including when he threatened the cops.
2006-07-14 13:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋