please help I am not sure?

Question

I was seeing someone else when i broke it off with my bofriend i was just getting of my period when i had intercourse with the other guy well me and my boyfriend got back and well now we are married and i am pregnant i also had intercourse when i got with my boyfriend is it possible that i got pregnant from the other guy or my husband now??? whoes d o you think that it is my husband and i had intercourse about 1 week later please only serious answers thanks

when i was with the other guy it was the middle of october. I got with my husband in the begining of nov. i am due july 20th

my husband does know i told him before we got married

Answer 1

If you are due July 20th then your Estimated date of conception is October 27th and that is assuming the First day of last menstrual period was October 13th. Go here to look at date more accurate for you!

Answer 2

You said that your husband knows about the sex with the other guy so I think if there is any question then the best thing to do is get a DNA test. Hopefully it turns out to be your husbands, but I think he,you, the other guy, and your child all have the right to know the truth. The due date the doctor gave you could is just a guess it doesnt really mean anything expect you will probably have the baby within 2 weeks before or 2 weeks after. I ready that only like 10% or less of babies are do on the due date so for the people who said that its the other guys honesty there is no way to tell without the DNA test beecause it was too close to say. Good luck and I hope all turns out well :)

Answer 3

Since mid-October and early November are so close, only a DNA test will tell you who is the father.

My advice is that since you are married and you want the best for your baby, you will not tell your husband what happened and you will not get a paternity test, because if it's not his this will affect his attitude towards the child (i.e. resentment, anger, jealousy, etc.). And if the test showed it was your husband's child, then you would have put the both of you through all that stress and worry for nothing. Don't disturb old skeletons when it's not necessary.

That old chapter of your life is closed now. Keep it that way. It is not always in the best interest to have the truth be broadcast from the rooftops. When people may get hurt then it's just not worth it. You can keep this to yourself and let it be a reminder to you to teach your child when he/she grows up to be sexually responsible, save it for marriage and not make the same mistakes you did.

Whatever you do, PLEASE think of the wellbeing of your future child and the sanctity of your marriage and your relationship with your husband.

Answer 4

Based on timing, I think it could be your husband's. If you were just getting off your period when you had sex with the other guy you would be on around day 8 of your cycle. Sperm can live inside the vagina for up to 5 days before dying. In a typical 28 day cycle, you would ovulate around day 14 and would remain fertile for a few days. You slept with your ex one week later which would be day 15, and you would likely be fertile. The only way to really know is to take a DNA test which would probably rip your marriage apart. Based on dates though I would say it is more likely your husband's.

Answer 5

Looks kinda bad for you. Take 40 weeks and go from there. You should get a paternity test done. I hope you have been honest with your husband. If you are I'm sure it won't matter to him if he loves you. But if it's another mans child that other man deserves to know too right?
Good luck!!
All it takes is one night with one man, it does not matter if you are "used to" on mans sperm. I was with an ex for four years, my last year with him completly unprotected, I met my husband about two months after and it only took us six months. Thankfully I had my baby nine months after our wedding!

Answer 6

Wow, that's a really tough situation. I highly recommend that you have a dna test on your baby after it comes. According to pregnancy.org, if your periods were regular, the most likely conception date is October 26. Now this can vary, according to when you ovulated and how long your cycles are. Feel free to contact me thorugh my profile if you want to talk further. I hope it all works out the way you want it to.

Answer 7

The real question is why do you think that anyone on Yahoo has an answer for you? You know what you need, a paternity test. When the baby is born have one done. Until then you should keep this Jerry Springer crap to yourself.

Answer 8

You have a long life ahead of you. I would confess this issue with your husband and have a paternity test done when the baby is born. If your husband is able to forgive you, count your blessings and for heavens sake, be faithful and raise your baby.

Answer 9

When was your last normal period? It would be easier to guesstimate with that knowledge, though it's not 100%. It would at least give you some idea of when you were fertile. If you go online and search for pregnancy due date calculator, look for one that also gives you the estimated date of conception. Maybe that would help.

One good site is http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526833.html

Best of luck!

Answer 10

WOW, I know how you feel. It is a horible situation and NO ONE knows what youa re going through unless they have been there so don't worry about all the haters. I am still a little confused about when you and your husband had sex? You can e-mail me and we can figure this out better.