2006-07-14 13:24:18 · 7 answers · asked by bamagyrl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thinking about women or watching lesbian porn doesn't necessarily ~make~ you a lesbian.
I think Kinsey's scale of sexuality best describes the vast array of human sexuality. We're all at various points along the scale with exclusive heterosexuality at one end and exclusive homosexuality at the other. Then you have those who are bisexual smack dab in the middle.
You might be somewhere in between the hetero and bi points on the line, but could just have thoughts about being with another woman. Whether or not you would actually be inclined to go forward with it and act on it, then that could put you at a closer point to bisexuality. That is, if you're still attracted to men.
If you have no inclination to ever have a relationship with a man, then you could be a lesbian.
Don't put yourself in a box. Just go with the flow, and you'll figure it out. We all do eventually. =)
2006-07-14 13:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shawn_Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything Shawn_Sunshine said. I think she htit the nail on the had lol.
Certainly those two things do not make you anything except Bi-curious. Because that doesn't even mean you will try it, you are just curious about. Chances are, if you do, do it, you would enjoy it because it obviously turns you on. That would place you somewhere in between. HOW MUCH you liked it would determine exactly where it placed you lol.
2006-07-14 21:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by scorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't. I've got a friend who ahs thought about it, and has watched lesbian porno, but she isn't . . . how do I put it . . . she likes to watch it to get her revved up to be with her guy. Does she realy want to be with a girl? No, but she likes to watch.
If you are more into it, like wanting to really try it, then you may be bisexual. Explore, girl!
2006-07-14 21:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Songbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not really, right now your just curious. You might actually try going out with a female and find you don't like it.
2006-07-15 12:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lady D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it makes you a closeted one.
2006-07-16 04:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, especially if you still like males
2006-07-14 21:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by sexymami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you think you are.
2006-07-14 21:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋