This has to do with my last question a little.
I personally am not fat at all. I have a BMI
of 20 i think. But still, it seems so hypocritical.
A heavy guy who has a slender gf is looked
at like a pimp, and his buddies praise him.
But if that same guy had a heavy gf they
would ridicule him for being with a fat pig?
I know not ALL guys are like this but it seems
really acceptable for a guy to be a fat slob.
But if a girl is she is a piece of sh*t. I will admit
at a certain wieght it gets unhealthy, but
full figured women are gorgeous...at least to me
Marilyn Monroe by todays standards would be
plus size, and Monica Bellucci and Beyonce
are both full figured gals, and they are smokin!!
So i guess its a double standard guys can
be ugly and fat but a girl cant.
And if an ugly/and or fat guy gets
turned down by a girl shes a total b**ch
but if a guy turns a ugly/andor fat girl
its fine and acceptable. Thoughts anyone?
2006-07-14 13:10:28 · 16 answers · asked by roman_surf_goddess 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I agree... but normally its the insecure man who want fine *** girls... I was beyonce body type but with boobs (d's)... I got pregnant and went up one size since ... However 1 size made the difference everyone makes this huge deal about my size and I feel great! my whole life I have heard dont get fat!!! I just got to the point where females , we just gotta be happy with ourselves , normally people who judge you are people who try to make themselfs feel better by putting you down... my man loves me just the way I am made and I dont need to be a size 0 to be happy w/my life! so f&%$# all them fat ugly consided *** man...
2006-07-14 13:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by nahN2do 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you; you pose a good question. However, you have to look at men in general. For some men all they do is sit round the house and eat and watch sports all day!
I personally believe that EVERYONE is beautiful in their own way, beyond their physical features. I also feel the people should not judge others so much on the way they look. Now I say so much because, it's not a good deal to be with someone who is over weight or under weight because it's very dangerous.
To keep it real, Men like women who look good, and for them looking good means "curvy". Once again I know my answer is kinda long, but I really do agree with you. You seem like a great person!!!
2006-07-14 13:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Lady E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the words of the immortal James Brown.."It's a Man's World"
I would also like to point out the Hugh Hefner("playboy") vs. Liz Taylor ("too many marriages to younger men...yadayada blah blah)
and then there's Martha Raye (i think thats her); marrys some young thing and did the papers say he was just after her money?? i don' think so! ...but the old millionaire and Anna Nicole?? hell SHE was the one the papers drug thru the mud
i could go on ...but i'm pissing myself off....not good just before work
2006-07-14 13:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by nascarmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The media sort of 'tells' people what's right or not. You see all these commercials with skinny tall girls in 'sexy' clothing with men around her. It's telling you 'if you are this skinny, tall, and sexy looking, you'll have guys swarming around you'. Which is definitely not true. Guys are portrayed in the media as 'muscle-dudes' who drink beer and look like they're on steroids and whatnot. THEY'RE JUST TRYING TO SELL PRODUCTS TO YOU. So yeah, don't listen. I just hate how people actually fall for it, thinking "if I use this perfume and wear this, I'll be popular" or "if I get this car and drink achohol, I'll be happy".
2006-07-14 13:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anne K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they're utilizing what's called 'projection' in the psych worldwide. They challenge their short comings onto different individuals-the very issues they're to blame of-all to take the concentration off of themselves and their short comings-in addition they're going to try this while it is not even genuine on the different persons section- sense sorry for the guy who has to place others right down to make themselves sense solid, they're the main unhappy human beings in this worldwide.
2016-10-07 22:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O dont really think it is completly acceptable for a guy to be fat. But I think it is just because men and women think differently. Guys usually try to get some all the time no matter what age. When women want romance and stuff.
2006-07-14 13:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
HEY,
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU. I'VE COME TO NOTICE THAT PEOPLE DO ACT THAT WAY AND I REALLY THINK THAT IT'S NOT FAIR. BIG IS BEAUTIFUL (AT A HEALTHY WEIGHT ANYWAY....) I WEIGH 157, 5'4 BUT I'M MORE ON THE THINISH SIDE, BUT I STILL CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE PLUS SIZED AND I LOVE EVERY INCH OF MY SELF.....
2006-07-14 13:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Eh, some guys care about the way they look, some don't. Some girls care about the way they look, some don't.
2006-07-14 13:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by creative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,When all is said and done .....Fat Men are not attractive ...FAT(over weight by 10pc) people are not acceptable mainly for health reasons,personally I don't like to look at them ,I find it (not them )repulsive, so I don't .
2006-07-14 13:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whom ever came up with that are imbeciles that could find the gym with a tour guide.
2006-07-14 13:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋