Imagine you met someone on chat first time you try to ignore him an d then suddenly you feel more and more attracted to him. He seems to be sincere to you words he said never no one told you.
Problem is that she or he is much younger than you (more than 9 years) What should you do would you feel guilty,would you stop talking? What would you do?
2006-07-14 12:25:51 · 33 answers · asked by Moonlila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We didn't meet of the web but i don't think it makes a difference how you meet really but yes its quite possible, I'm 27 and my husband is 21, other relationships before him have been with men older than myself but my husband is the only person that's ever made me truly feel like he worships the ground i walk on, I've never loved another like i love him, we have a bond that i never thought possible, we just connect, don't get me wrong when we first met, his age made me feel slightly apprehensive but he soon proved me wrong, all i know is what we have now and its truly beautiful, who knows what the future brings, all i know is now. x
2006-07-14 12:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by odette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as he shown picture ID , Age has not relly been a factor if it is a man with money and a much younger lady ! But very slowly women are FINALLY not caring . I've been forced to date younger men because men my age are married , Fat and sloppy , have grown hildren always into his personal life ( esp . if his wife passed away ) .I've also relies that Some men younger don't real I'm too old to do the things I'd miss out on ( if he was my age ).My ex husband , seen me and had a few commits , I laughed and said dam I'm 6 years older than you and your aging really bad ! I look and feel young than when we were married 17 years ago . He cuzed and walked off. So date and have a great tome !
2006-07-14 12:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. I am in my twenties so someone 9 years younger would still be in High School, not a good thing. If you are in your 30s or 40s go for it! Or even if you are late 20s it might just work. The older you get the bigger age gaps don't seem to be such a big deal. I would date someone 9 years older.
2006-07-14 12:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by jw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a woman falling for a younger man. It's just more common for it to happen the other way around. Men have been doing this for years. It's about damn time the ladies do it to.
As long as the person is legal (18 or over). who cares if hes 19 and your 50! you go girl!
2006-07-14 12:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by staygold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a girl but i would say even with a younger female, it depends on how old you are. if ure 19 and the person youre attracted to is 10 or younger (heaven for bid) thats kinda wrong but if ure like 30 and there 21 or so i think you'd be ok.
2006-07-14 12:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by SOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are under 18 and you are over 18, you can love her but not get involved until she is of age. My teacher and I dated when I was 14. He was 28 and we had serious problems when the schools staff found out that we were kind of close. He got fired and I don't know what else happened to him. I just never got to say goodbye to him. He said he loved me and he wanted to spend his life with me.That was 10 years ago. Just wait.
2006-07-14 12:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it all depends on you. If you are able to get past the age gap and then it won't be a problem, but if it's always an issue with you then it could become a wall in your relationship later. I hope things work out for you.
2006-07-14 12:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife did. I am younger than her. Her best friend is married to a man whos is 20 years older. They have a child and seem very happy.
2006-07-14 12:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being attractive on chat isn't difficult..falling in love is ridiculous because you haven't spent quality time around him in everyday life.
Him being 9 yrs younger may be a problem depending on your age..say, if you're 35 and he's 26 no real problem there.
2006-07-14 12:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter. My husband is 12 years older than me. Why feel guilty if you enjoy talking to him. And if you hit it off, good for you. If nothing else you might just have another friend
2006-07-14 12:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋