2006-07-14 12:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes when we're very young about 5-9 our sub-concious minds record all the goings on in our lifes even outside interferences,then when we're all grown up we act as if they are our own beliefs and create our own world with these thoughts,untill we're ready to change them and find out who we really are!
2006-07-17 06:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, everything you hear and see from your caretaker affects your life but only up to a certain age....we have the notion that we are messed up because of our parents. However, there comes a point in life (lot sooner for some) when you are conscious of the decisions you make and the path to take only because we are rational animals.
2006-07-16 12:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by nickless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a bad thing? If both of your parents are still together, still love each other and raised you with good values, morals, and love, given you everything, and supported you, then this is not a bad thing. Life is what you make of it, so IF you have screwed your life up, then thats you and not what your parents taught you. Get the picture
2006-07-14 19:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It has been discovered that a child gets their emotional traits from their primary caretaker...usually the mom. And, they get their physical traits (not necessarily build) such as their outgoingness (introvert/extrovert) from their secondary caretaker (usually the dad).
If the child is smart, it will be strong enough to filter the negative through their critical mind filter so they are not too scarred from it when they are adults.
2006-07-14 19:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it has a tremendous impact. Not only what you hear, but their attitude towards you, and towards life in general. That is the way it is! Huge responsibility that parents have.
2006-07-14 19:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't life amazing. Guess Freud was really right in blaming the mother for everything. Why not?
2006-07-14 19:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I do
and it scares the heck out of me too!
messed up for life !
2006-07-14 20:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy do I feel sorry for my nephew and nieces. My ex-sister-n-law is such an emotional reck...and b*tch.
2006-07-14 20:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by atari_girl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋