2006-07-14 12:08:56 · 33 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A good person but seems to lose his job when we get our head above water.
2006-07-14 12:14:55 · update #1
well i think the best thing to do is sit down and have a talk with them dont leave any ends open because thats the least you can do if that is someone you really love.
2006-07-14 12:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Andy29Pandy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are talking about an irresponsible person. This is a very difficult place for you to be. You love him but can't stand what he does. While you may have no choice but to leave perhaps you should find out what is going on with him.
If you have tried to do this to no avail then perhaps you should try a trial separation. If you haven't tried this I suspect it may wake him up. Of course it will for a while but may not last.
Try the separation.....make sure he knows exactly why you want it......and when you are back together if he hasn't gotten the message and quits his job again then it is time to go.
You have given him a chance so there is no further reason you have to feel guilty about just walking away.
2006-07-14 12:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question, actually I had to go through the same thing about a year ago. I had to pray a lot, but I sat down with him and was very very empathic with him. I told himm how I felt about him and then said that it would be the best thing for us to just leave and that I never wanted to him and I think he was a great guy, which probably didn't help tha much. but I was honest and I tried to understand how he felt and went from there. Good Luck girl.
2006-07-14 12:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as u know saying good-bye is always a hard thing to say.but remember that absense makes the heart grow fonder. when u c this person again u are gonna feel complete so, say 'later' now, and anticipate seeing the person again!! <3
2006-07-14 12:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Hello_Kitty_Lover<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. But you can be kind. Don't be mean about it. Tell the person you know you will BOTH hurt, but you need to go. Say it's nobody's fault. Love is gone. Be kind.
2006-07-14 12:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible.
2006-07-14 12:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say 'Good' then straight after 'bye', the one i love never takes offense by me saying 'Goodbye' if I'm off out. x
2006-07-14 12:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by odette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is going to always damage so that you need to stay reliable and wish for the superb. always keep in recommendations the sturdy circumstances. your loved on may like that. it really is what I do. my father pasted away 5 years in the past even as i replaced into 15... listening to music helps too.
2016-12-10 09:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a way to do it. With out hurting the person.
2006-07-14 12:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well feelings will get hurt but in the end you must be true to yourself...Just be sure to let him down easy.
2006-07-14 12:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by eastcoastraven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋