I mean is it by what he does or doesnt do I mean what is the best way to spot a user?
2006-07-14 12:00:50 · 19 answers · asked by Andy29Pandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after he has what he wants he makes you feel like you owe him! and he has little time for you when you need it but when he needs you it is a priority that you drop everything! he always has to be somewhere else without you!
2006-07-14 12:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
both.
i've never been used but maybe if he avoids saying he loves you ...he's admiring a special body part alot..booty and boobs...but don't really care about about your personality or feelings...he seems to show more love for you when he's in need...but at other than that he can go a week without seeing u..
make sure you're not acting to easy...toughen up that heart a bit...make sure he's someone you can count on and he's not all over the place...if you think that he's losing interest in you, don't think about trust this and trust that.. find out why...trust needs to be gained.
you can't really look at someone and know right away the he's a user...meet him first..you'll probably discover him in an hour..
2006-07-14 19:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by **sweetbabe** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak the loudest.
When you go out, does it always end up taking your car so you can buy the gas, pay for parking, etc.
Who's cooking the dinner and doing the laundry? Who's doing the dishes and cleaning the bathroom?
Does he just tell you to pick up this one thing for him while you're out at the store anyway and not ever reciprocate or pay you for it?
There's tons of signs.
2006-07-14 19:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A user only really cares about himself and his own interests. He will only act interested in you by measuring you against what he'll get out of it.
In other words, he only really truly cares about his OWN agenda and not yours.
He's the center of his world and will never take responsibility for himself. He'll always blame other people and act as if he's an innocent victim.
2006-07-14 19:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he stops doing all the little simple things is a good sign
2006-07-14 19:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boo, you can spot a user , if he takes more then he gives. now realize that emotions dont carry a price. so a man can fulfill you emotionally and not financially, its what your comfortable with.
2006-07-14 19:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone that is dependent on you and you know they could do better but they just keep you around because you do things for them. It's easier to spot when the person loses passion for you but keeps you around because you are dependable.
2006-07-14 19:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what he does and how he makes you feel about it. If you feel like you are really being used and know that you have reason to believe it then go with that feeling. Confront him and tell him to step up or to go away.
2006-07-14 19:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you pay for things or you find yourself paying all of the time.
If he just has sex when he wants it.
If he leaves right away after having sex.
If he wants to see you only when it is convienient to him.
2006-07-14 19:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Always remember that.
2006-07-14 19:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋